Monday, June 22, 2020

LGBTQ HUMAN BEINGS - ADULTS and CHILDREN ARE DEHUMANIZED BY - U.S. Catholic Bishops - GOMEZ, USCCB president, ‘DEEPLY CONCERNED’ about U.S. Supreme Court’s RULING federal law PROTECTS - LGBTQ Workers from DISCRIMINATION! WHAT, PROTECTING - LGBTQ Workers from DISCRIMINATION IS A PROBLEM FOR WHOM?!?








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WEDNESDAY, 

JULY 29, 2020

LGBTQ HUMAN BEINGS - ADULTS and CHILDREN ARE DEHUMANIZED BY - U.S. Catholic Bishops - GOMEZ, USCCB president, ‘DEEPLY CONCERNED’ about U.S. Supreme Court’s RULING federal law PROTECTS - LGBTQ Workers from DISCRIMINATION! DISCRIMINATION IS A PROBLEM FOR WHOM?!?

http://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2020/07/lgbtq-human-beings-adults-and-children.html












Jun 16, 2020  

Photos: Selma Fraiberg

Pope John Paul II

Pope Benedict XVI

USCCB president - 

Archbishop Gomez

Archbishop

Gomez,

the USCCB president, is

 deeply

concerned 

about the

U.S. 

Supreme

Court’s 

ruling 

that federal law

 protects

LGBTQ 

workers from

 discrimination!


WHAT 

protecting

LGBTQ

workers

 from

 discrimination 

IS A 

PROBLEM 

FOR 

WHOM?!?


WHAT

TWISTED

FORM OF

 LOVE 

IS THIS?!?



WHO

 SANCTIONED 

THIS 

DISGUISED 

FORM OF

 HATRED, ESPECIALLY 

LIFE-THREATENING 

TO 

VERY YOUNG

 CHILDREN

CRUCIAL

IN THEIR 

EARLY

CHILDHOOD

PSYCHOLOGICAL

DEVELOPMENTAL

YEARS

GROWING-UP

GAY

?!?


USCCB president ‘deeply concerned’ about court’s LGBT ruling

Jun 16, 2020

WASHINGTON, D.C. — The president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops said he is “deeply concerned” that by ruling federal law protects LGBT workers from discrimination, the U.S. Supreme Court “has effectively redefined the legal meaning of ‘sex’ in our nation’s civil rights law.”

“This is an injustice that will have implications in many areas of life,” Los Angeles Archbishop Jose H. Gomez said in a statement issued late June 15.

Earlier in the day the high court in a 6-3 vote said LGBT people are protected from job discrimination by Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964.

“An employer who fires an individual for being homosexual or transgender fires that person for traits or actions it would not have questioned in members of a different sex,” said Justice Neil Gorsuch writing the opinion in the case argued at the start of the court’s term last October.

“Only the written word is the law, and all persons are entitled to its benefit,” Gorsuch wrote. Dissenting votes were from Justices Samuel Alito, Clarence Thomas and Brett Kavanaugh.

Gomez said that “by erasing the beautiful differences and complementary relationship between man and woman, we ignore the glory of God’s creation and harm the human family, the first building block of society.”…

Read more:

https://cruxnow.com/church-in-the-usa/2020/06/usccb-president-deeply-concerned-about-courts-lgbt-ruling/




Gomez

demonstrates 

a complete

absence 

of 

EMPATHY!

This is due to Gomez’s REJECTION

 of the SCIENCE of HOMOSEXUALITY. Therefore Gomez is not speaking TRUTH and without TRUTH there is NO LOVE!!!


Gomez is publicly spewing out HATRED against LGBTQ adults and especially very young  CHILDREN.  Gomez is contaminating the social environment making it detrimental, even life-threatening to children in their early childhood years growing up gay.



Dissociation 

Definition:

Dissociation is any of a wide array of experiences from mild detachment from immediate surroundings to more severe detachment from physical and emotional experiences. The major characteristic of all dissociative phenomena involves a detachment from reality, rather than a loss of reality as in psychosis…

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dissociation_(psychology)


More commentary on Gomez’s irresponsible negligence publicly harming very young children by his unsubstantiated words can be found below. GOMEZ is far worst than “Clanging Cymbals” he is severely harming children growing up in the same way he was harmed growing up GAY! GOMEZ’S HOSTILE DEADLY WORDS AGAINST LGBTQ ADULTS and CHILDREN is a clear sign no one had shown him any empathy growing up gay. It is time to make this invisible deadly harm to very young children by the 

RC Curia and Hierarchy visible. The display of these benign Colt Studio models may seem provocative, but the message is directed to the repressed dissociated (detachment from reality) homosexual thoughts and sexual arousal of the majority of the members of the RC Curia and Hierarchy as indicated by their complete rejection of the science of homosexuality and collectively their fierce emotional refusal to enter into or allow any open discussion dialogue on this science. Their reactions to these benign Colt Studio models act like an inkblot test revealing much about their sexuality and how they were mistreated (repeatedly abused) in their early childhood years growing up gay.







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BURKE - Dubia cardinals condemn 'plague' of gay agenda’ Feb. 2019 Photo




THE 

BOGIEMAN 

AND

CARDINAL

 BURKES

24/7

Dissociated

 Homosexual

Arousals 


PROJECTING

THEM

OUTWARD

AS 

BASELESS

FEARS

OF

HOMOSEXUAL AGENDA

CONSPIRACY

THEORIES 


Cardinal Burke,s incessant delusional sightings of the existence of homosexual agendas exists solely in Burke’s head. These homosexual agendas

are Burke’s repressed dissociated own regular natural and normal 24/7 homosexual arousals (1957 the science of homosexuality) always being projected outward as some unsubstantiated conspiracy theory bound for human destruction. In reality, Burke’s hysterical obsession with the non-existence of Homosexual Agendas, are early childhood traumatized fears i.e. parental abandonment  (Jack Drescher MD, The Closet: Psychological Issues of Being In and Coming Out|Dissociative 

Identity Disorder) being scorned for (unsubstantiated by science -  antigay parental, societal and religious prejudices) perceived exhibiting homosexual tendencies. Note: that Cardinal Burke’s fears about Homosexual Agenda has no basis in fact, they remain childish heightened emotional fears i.e. fears of a bogieman hiding under the bed or in a closet. 


The disproportionate degree of emotional intensity of these fears as demonstrated by Burke are associated with the dissociation from the normal and natural 24/7 autonomic functioning of human sexuality, such as, homosexual arousal, feelings, thoughts, dreams that elicit to the surface deeply buried and forgotten - the unconscious emotional intensity of a child’s traumatized fears of parental abandonment. The disruptive force of this unconscious unnamed overwhelming emotional intensity is only defused when the emotion can be named and is reconnected to the event(s)that caused it. 




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see 5 visible planets for first time in a decade TOMORROW  Feb 19, 2016 Photo


Gay Dissociation 

Cardinal Burke 

and Old Lace

Photo


RC Curia and Hierarchy

‘Gay Dissociation and 

Old Lace’



Aunt Martha and Aunt Abby

Arsenic and Old Lace’ 1944



Cary Grant: “There’s a body in the window seat!”


Cary Grant: “Look, Aunt Martha, men just don’t get into window seats and die! 

How did he die?!?”


Aunt Abby: “The gentleman died because he drank some wine with some poison in it.”


Cary Grant:  “You mean to tell me, you put arsenic, in the Elderberry Wine?”



Aunt Abby and Aunt Martha

Arsenic and Old Lace’ 1944


SarahBurkeBagnasco,  

ChaputViganoBrandmüllerMüllerNapierTurkson, Morino, "Burke, Brandmüller, Vigano and Müller” BlairLoriCordileoneVigneronWenskiGomez

RC Curia and Hierarchy

Gay Dissociation and 

Old Lace’


Can you Imagine being in a very large group where the majority of the people are in a state of dissociation (detachment from reality) all on the same subject? On a smaller scale it would be something like the 1944 movie ‘Arsenic and Old Lace’ where the two nice old aunts SINCERELY believe that poisoning old homeless men was a charity and not in reality was MURDER? This is the same overwhelming surreal feeling you get being among the dissociated RC curia and hierarchy repressed homosexuals, who never ever acknowledge the reality of sexual orientation - it does not exist, therefore, there is nothing to dialogue about. It is like being in the Trump administration where covid 19 DOES NOT EXIST any more and Putin hasn’t been collecting bounties for dead U.S. soldiers. YES, it is just that atrocious,  real, actual deadly threats to all humanity and not the new the SCOTUS ruling protecting LGBTQ workers from discrimination, as Gomez thinks!!! Talk about a NUT HOUSE! However, the majority of the members of the RC curia and hierarchy are dissociated repressed homosexuals, which is far worst than any nut house and the Trump administration put together!!! Some day there will be a movie made about this stark unbelievable situation just like ‘Arsenic and Old Lace.’ Talk about "Old Lace" - how fitting when referring to these RC prelates!!! I am talking about stopping this invisible form of life-threatening structural violence to children!!!



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CHILDREN AND

 STRUCTURAL

 VIOLENCE

Milton Schwebel and 

Daniel J. Christie

Peace, Conflict, and Violence: Peace Psychology for the 21st Century.

The reduction of direct violence requires not only interventions aimed at individuals, but also structural changes aimed at how societies operate…the effects of structural violence on children. Structural violence is the unequal distribution of power and wealth within and between societies, and it has insidious effects on the health, intellectual development, education, and general welfare of millions of children. The cruelties of structural violence on children are often subtleunspokenunrecognized, and even normalized, regarded by many people as natural or just the way things are.” This chapter focuses on how children suffer the cruel effects of structural violence, and why it has long-lasting consequences on their intellectual, social, and emotional development…

Read more: 

Chapter 10:

Milton Schwebel and 

Daniel J. Christie

https://cpb-us-w2.wpmucdn.com/u.osu.edu/dist/b/7538/files/2014/10/Chapter-10-Children-Structural-Violence-Schwebel-Christie-2jjgq7s.pdf

Peace, Conflict, and Violence: Peace Psychology for the 21st Century.” Englewood Cliffs, New Jersey: Prentice-Hall.

https://u.osu.edu/christie/about/peace-conflict-and-violence-peace-psychology-for-the-21st-century/



Also, the continuous display of the Colt Studio models is an attempt to keep challenging the 

collective homosexual

 DISSOCIATION defense mechanism of the RC curia and hierarchy that has become their near impenetrable pervasive organizational 

culture - that is globally life-threatening to very young children. The majority of RC prelates are in this unbelievable complete denial state of mind that the reality of their homosexual sexual orientation simply does noexist, regardless how revealing their anti-gay behavior conveys the exact opposite i.e. SarahBurkeBagnascoChaputVigano,

 BrandmüllerMüllerNapierTurkson, Morino, "Burke, Brandmüller, Vigano and Müller” BlairLori,

 CordileoneVigneronWenskiGomez.


Gomez is in a HYSTERICAL frame of mind making extremely wild exaggerations i.e. Gomez said that “by erasing the beautiful differences and complementary relationship between man and woman, we ignore the glory of God’s creation and harm the human family, the first building block of society” GET A GRIP!!! ARE YOU NUTS!!! Protecting LGBTQ workers from discrimination - is going to destroy all creation and the human family??? Nothing is being ERASED!!! It is like Galileo - it is expanding broadening our understanding of the GLORY of GOD’S CREATION, enhancing the beauty of the reality of the diversity of man and women and strengthening the building block of society. Read Benedict XVI - you have dispensed with truth and have ARBITRARY so TWISTED the meaning of love around that it means the opposite. All will be untwisted at the Last Judgment. Then follow John Paul II words “know yourself.” Gomez should be DEFROCKED for his statement he made against the Supreme Court ruling protecting LGBTQ workers

from discrimination. It is a global form of child abuse!!!  





WHAT IS 

CRUCIAL

FOR THE 

DEVELOPMENT 

OF 

EMPATHY

ARE THE

EARLY

 CHILDHOOD

PSYCHOLOGICAL

DEVELOPMENTAL

YEARS

GROWING-UP

GAY



American Psychological Association

SEXUAL

 ORIENTATION refers to an ENDURING pattern of emotional, romantic and/or sexual

 attractions to men, women or both sexes

Research over several decades has demonstrated that sexual orientation ranges along a continuum, from exclusive attraction to the other sex to exclusive attraction to the same sex. However, sexual orientation is usually discussed in terms of three categories: heterosexual (having emotional, romantic or sexual attractions to members of the other sex), gay/lesbian (having emotional, romantic or sexual attractions to members of one's own sex) and bisexual (having emotional, romantic or sexual attractions to both men and women). This range of behaviors and attractions has been described in various cultures and nations throughout the world… 

  …sexual orientation is defined in terms of RELATIONSHIPS with others…sexual orientation is CLOSELY tied to the intimate personal relationships that MEET deeply felt NEEDS for LoveAttachment, and Intimacy. In addition to sexual behaviors, these bonds include NONSEXUAL  physical affection between partners, shared Goals, and ValuesMutual Support, and Ongoing Commitment… Read more:

http://www.apa.org/topics/lgbt/orientation.aspx




American Psychiatric Association

Homosexuality 

as a 

Mental Disorder 

Simply Not 

Backed Up by 

Science

https://www.psychiatry.org/news-room/apa-blogs/apa-blog/2016/03/homosexuality-as-a-mental-disorder-simply-not-backed-up-by-science



Science on

 Homosexuality

American Psychological Association

Research Summary

The longstanding consensus of the behavioral and social sciences and the health and mental health professions is that homosexuality per se is a normal and positive variation of human sexual orientationhttp://www.apa.org/about/policy/sexual-orientation.aspx




NASA released 

incredibly rare photo of a 

double solar eclipse

GALILEO/SCIENCE

SEP 15, 2015 - Photo


THE 

BIG

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN

GAYS 

WHO ARE

OUT


Evelyn Hooker 

1957

The Adjustment of the Male Overt Homosexual 

ARE

MENTALLY 

HEALTHY

AS

STRAIGHTS 

&

GAYS 

WHO ARE

 CLOSETED

LIKE THE VATICAN'S

RC HIERARCHY

REPRESSED

HOMOSEXUALS

"50 shades of gay"

ARE 

PRONE TO

MENTAL 

DISORDERS

Read more:http://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2019/09/pope-francis-sealing-schism-caused-by.html



American Psychiatric Association (APA)

Official Actions

Position Statement on Therapies Focused

on Attempts to

 Change Sexual Orientation

(Reparative or

 Conversion

 Therapies)

Approved by the Board of Trustees, March 2000

Approved by the Assembly, May 2000

PSYCHIATRIC 

VIOLENCE 

RISK ASSESSMENT

   …“Psychotherapeutic modalities to convert or ‘repair’ homosexuality are based on developmental theories whose scientific validity is questionable. Furthermore, anecdotal reports of ‘cures’ are counterbalanced by anecdotal claims of psychological harm. In the last four decades, ‘reparative’ therapists have not produced any rigorous scientific research to substantiate their claims of cure. Until there is such research available, [the American Psychiatric Association] recommends that ethical practitioners refrain from attempts to change individuals’ sexual orientation, keeping in mind the medical dictum to first, do no harm.

   The potential risks of reparative therapy are great, including depressionanxietyand self-destructive behavior, since therapist alignment with societal prejudices against homosexuality may reinforce self-hatred already experienced by the patient. Many patients who have undergone reparative therapy relate that they were inaccurately told that homosexuals are lonely, unhappy individuals who never achieve acceptance or satisfaction. The possibility that the person might achieve happiness and satisfying interpersonal relationships as a gay man or lesbian is not presented, nor are alternative approaches to dealing with the effects of societal stigmatizationdiscussed…


Position Statement on Psychiatric Treatment and Sexual Orientation 

   Therefore, the American Psychiatric Association opposes any psychiatric treatment such as reparative or conversion therapy which is based upon the assumption that homosexuality per se is a mental disorder or based upon the a priori assumption that a patient should change his/her sexual homosexual orientation.”…

Read more: https://www.psychiatry.org/file%20library/about-apa/organization-documents-policies/policies/position-2000-therapies-change-sexual-orientation.pdf



GAYS

WHO ARE

OUT

ARE

HAPPIER,

PHYSICALLY

AND 

MENTALLY 

 HEALTHIER

THAN

THE

50 Shades of

THE

 VATICAN'S

CLOSETED

GAYS

http://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2019/09/pope-francis-sealing-schism-caused-by.html




GALILEO NASA moon landings,  Mars next space destination (2024)

Jun 2, 2019 Photo


 Europa Multiclub 

Vatican purchases €23m building that houses Europe's biggest gay sauna

PhotoPhoto




Roman Curia “The Machine of The Slime”

Secrets of the Vatican PBS

Excerpts:

ROBERT MICKENS, Vatican Correspondent, The Tablet: I came here when I was a seminarian in 1986. And I remember I had this very wide-eyed idea of the Vatican, of these holy cardinals and holy men. And I was shocked within a matter of weeks, months, at the careerism, at the sexual innuendo, the— just the whole kind of non-holy life I hadn't expected.

VATICAN GUIDE: [through interpreter] A large part of the hierarchy is homosexual. Certainly, at the top levels of the church, in the Curia, and many important people, such as bishops and archbishops, are gay.

NARRATOR: He's a Vatican guide who says he's had relationships with several priests.

VATICAN GUIDE: [through interpreter] Here in Rome, it's very easy to meet a gay priest, on a bus, in a church, and important churches like St. Peter's. It's even easier when you go to gay clubs and gay bars. You see them in the bars, and then at the altar the following Sunday…

Read more:

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/frontline/film/secrets-of-the-vatican/transcript/



OBSERVING 

CURIA’S 

RIGID

 CLOSETED  

CARDINALS & BISHOPS

“50 shades of gay”



The Corruption of the Vatican’s Gay Elite Has Been Exposed

By Andrew Sullivan

FEB. 22, 2019

I spent much of this week reading and trying to absorb the new and devastating book by one Frédéric Martel on the gayness of the hierarchy at the top of the Catholic Church, In the Closet of the Vatican: Power, Homosexuality, Hypocrisy. It’s a bewildering and vast piece of reporting — Martel interviewed no fewer than “41 cardinals, 52 bishops and monsignori, 45 apostolic nunciossecretaries of nunciatures or foreign ambassadors, 11 Swiss Guards and over 200 Catholic priests and seminarians.” He conducted more than 1,500 interviews over four years, is quite clear about his sources, and helps the reader weigh their credibility. He keeps the identity of many of the most egregiously hypocritical cardinals confidential, but is unsparing about the dead.

  The picture Martel draws is jaw-dropping. Many of the Vatican gays — especially the most homophobic — treat their vows of celibacy with an insouciant contempt. Martel argues that many of these cardinals and officials have lively sex lives, operate within a “don’t askdon’t tell” culture, constantly hit on young men, hire prostitutes, throw chem-sex parties, and even pay for sex with church money. How do we know this? Because, astonishingly, they tell us.

  So much of the information in the book comes from sources deep within the Holy See. Named and unnamed, they expose their fellow cardinals and bishops and nuncios as hypocrites, without perhaps realizing that their very targets are doing the same to them. Martel didn’t expect this remarkable candor, or, clearly, what he was about to see: “Whether they are ‘practising’, ‘homophile’, ‘initiates’, ‘unstraights’, ‘wordly’, ‘versatile’, ‘questioning’, or simply ‘in the closet’, the world I am discovering, with its 50 shades of gay, is beyond comprehension.”

  Among the named sources: Francesco Lepore, a brilliant young gay Latin translator and priest. He soared through the ranks, directly serving Popes Benedict XVI and Francis, until, as a gay man, he found a way to quit his post because he couldn’t abide the double lifehe was forced to lead, or the rancid hypocrisy of the whole system. He says he saw everything from the inside: “He has had several lovers among archbishops and prelates; he has been propositioned by a number of cardinals, whom we discuss: an endless list. I have scrupulously checked all of those stories, making contact myself with those cardinals, archbishops, monsignori, nuncios, assistants, ordinary priests or confessors at St Peter’s, all basically homosexual.” This is not the peddling of innuendo, or salacious gossip. It’s reporting…

  …Martel is taken aback by the way in which many of his interviewees openly hit on him and, especially, his young assistant. Being gay, he notices things a straight reporter might not. His ears prick up when Cardinal Burke’s assistant casually informs him of the archenemy of Francis: “Sheworks from home.” He sees the cruising all around him. He notices simple things that some might call innuendo, but any gay man will instantly recognize, like the fabulous interiors of the gay cardinals’ palaces, always with their “assistants” or young “relative” on hand. Or he simply describes Burke’s appearance: “The 70-year-old cardinal [is] sitting on an asparagus-green throne twice as large as he is, surrounded by silvery drapery. He wears a fluorescent yellow mitre in the shape of a tall Tower of Pisa, and long turquoise gloves that look like iron hands; his mozzetta is cabbage-green, embroidered with yellow, lined with a leek-green hood revealing a bow of crimson and pomegranate lace.”

  Then there’s simply the reporting. Some of the most conservative clerics concede the truth of the book on the record. Or take Martel’s interaction with the Swiss Guards, one of whom vents: “The harassment is so insistent that I said to myself that I was going straight home. Many of us are exasperated by the usually rather indiscreet advances of the cardinals and bishops.” Or the prostitutes who keep elaborate records of their clients, and have already caused huge scandals in Italy. Or a confessor-priest in Saint Peter’s who guides Martel into the Vatican with the words: “Welcome to Sodoma.” Martel double-checks rumors until he can confirm them. Of course, many of these sources remain unnamed. The very subject matter makes that unavoidable. But critics of the book — and the defensive dismissals of it as mere salacious gossip are already out there — have to argue that Martel is a liar, a fabulist, a con artist, who faked these remarkable interviews. I don’t buy it…

Read more: http://nymag.com/intelligencer/2019/02/andrew-sullivan-the-vaticans-corruption-has-been-exposed.html



BURKE’S 

OBSESSIVE 

GAY AGENDA SCARE

IS THE

BOGIEMAN 

AND 

CARDINAL BURKE’S 

24/7 

Dissociated 

Homosexual 

AROUSALS



PhotoPhotoPhotoPhoto

BURKE - Dubia cardinals condemn 'plague' of gay agenda’ Feb. 2019 Photo

Anti-gay

Authoritarian Parenting



UNDERPINNINGS 
of 

ANTI-GAY BULLYING 

and 

HATE CRIMES

of THE

RC Curia and Hierarchy

Repressed DISSOCIATED Homosexuals


Homophobes 

Might Be 

Hidden 

Homosexuals

A new analysis of implicit bias and explicit sexual orientation statements may help to explain the underpinnings of  anti-gay bullying and hate crimes

April 10, 2012


Homophobes should consider a little self-reflection, suggests a new study finding those individuals who are most hostile toward gays and hold strong anti-gay views may themselves have same-sedesires, albeit undercover ones.


The prejudice of homophobia may also stem from authoritarian parents, particularly those with homophobic views as well, the researchers added.


"This study shows that if you are feeling that kind of visceral reaction to an out-group, ask yourself, 'Why?'" co-author Richard Ryan, a professor of psychology at the University of Rochester, said in a statement. "Those intense emotions should serve as a call to self-reflection."


The research, published in the April 2012 issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, reveals the nuances of prejudices like homophobia, which can ultimately have dire consequences. [The 10 Most Destructive Human Behaviors]


"Sometimes people are threatened by gays and lesbians because they are fearing their own impulses, in a sense they 'doth protest too much,'" Ryan told LiveScience. "In addition, it appears that sometimes those who would oppress others have been oppressed themselves, and we can have some compassion for them too, they may be unaccepting of others because they cannot be accepting of themselves."


Ryan cautioned, however, that this link is only one source of anti-gay sentiments.


Hidden homosexuality

In four studies, the researchers looked at the discrepancies between what people say about their sexual orientation and their implicit sexual orientation based on a reaction-time test…

Read more:

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/homophobes-might-be-hidden-homosexuals/




INVISIBLE
INJUSTICE

THE 

VIOLENCE 

OF

RC HIERARCHY’S 

REJECTION

OF THE 
SCIENCE 

OF

HOMOSEXUALITY 

IS 
STRUCTURAL 
VIOLENCE
IS
CHILD 
ENDANGERMENT
Child Endangerment refers to an act or omission that renders a child to psychologicalemotional or physical abuse. Child abuse based on the offense of child endangerment is normally a misdemeanor, but endangerment that results in mental illness or serious physical illness or injury is a felonyRead more:https://definitions.uslegal.com/c/child-endangerment/


EARLY CHILDHOOD ABUSE 

REJECTING A CHILD

GAY SEXUAL

 ORIENTATION

RC Curia and Hierarchy

ARE 

 THE ADULT

VICTIMS

of

Anti-gay

Authoritarian Parenting








The Closet: Psychological Issues of Being In and Coming Out

October 01, 2004 | 

Cultural Psychiatry, 

Dissociative 

Identity Disorder

By Jack Drescher, MD

Homosexual identities can be described as closeted, homosexually self aware, gay/ lesbian and non-gay identified. This classification privileges the role of self-definition. In coming out, gay people integrate, as best as they can, dissociated aspects of the self. As gay people must decide on a daily basis whether to reveal and to whom they will reveal, coming out is a process that never ends…


Closeted individuals frequently cannot acknowledge to themselves, let alone to others, their homoerotic feelings, attractions and fantasies. Their homosexuality is so unacceptable that it must be kept out of conscious awareness and cannot be integrated into their public persona. Consequently, these feelings must be dissociated from the self and hidden from others…


Dissociation

What psychological mechanisms facilitate separating one's sexual identity from the rest of one's persona? Sullivan's (1956) concept of dissociation may be illuminating, particularly its most common aspect: selective inattention. A ubiquitous, nonpathological process, selective inattention makes life more manageable, like tuning out the background noise on a busy street. However, through dissociation of anxiety-provoking knowledge about the self, a whole double life can be lived and yet, in some ways, not be known. Clinical presentations of closeted gay people may lie somewhere in severity between selective inattention--most commonly seen in the case of homosexually self-aware patients thinking about "the possibility" that they might be gay--to more severe dissociation--in which any hint of same-sex feelings resides totally out of conscious awareness. More severe forms of dissociation are commonly observed in married men who are homosexually self-aware but cannot permit the thought of themselves as gay (Roughton, 2002)…


It can be painful to keep significant aspects of the self hidden or to vigilantly separate aspects of the self from each other. Constant hiding creates difficulties in accurately assessing other people's perceptions of oneself, as well as recognizing one's own strengths. Dissociation's impact on self-esteem can also make it difficult to feel one's actual accomplishments as reflections of one's own abilities. Transparency, invisibility, losing one's voice, and being stuck behind walls or other barriers are some of the terms used to describe the subjective experience of dissociative detachment (Drescher, 1998)…


Attacking those perceived to be gay serves several functions. One penile plethysmography study indicated that men with strong antihomosexual beliefs actually had significant homosexual arousal patterns (Adams et al., 1996). Strong antihomosexual feelings may represent an effort to control perceptions of a gay-basher's own sexual identity. This might translate as, "If I attack gay people, no one will think am gay." Psychoanalysts call this defense "identification with the aggressor" (Freud, 1966). It may represent intrapsychic efforts to maintain a psychological distance from one's own homoerotic feelings. In other words, it is an effort to strengthen dissociative tendencies…


Years spent in the closet can make the prospect of revealing oneself an emotionally charged experience. However, the process is not just about revealing oneself to others--in coming out, gay people integrate, as best they can, dissociated aspects of the self. Herdt and Boxer (1993) classified coming out as a ritual process of passage that requires a gay person to 1) unlearn the principles of natural or essentialist heterosexuality; 2) unlearn the stereotypes of homosexuality; and 3) learn the ways of the lesbian and gay culture they are entering. Finally, as gay people must decide on a daily basis whether to reveal and to whom they will reveal themselves, coming out is a process that never ends


Internalized, antihomosexual attitudes are often rigid and disdainful of compromise or "relativism." A patient's dogmatic belief system may not recognize the concept of respectful disagreement. Nevertheless, exploration of such internalized, moral absolutes, and the identifications from which they stem, requires therapeutic tact. Some patients may try to resolve inner conflicts about being gay by selectively attending to their antihomosexual identifications. Unable to tolerate conflicting feelings about homosexuality, these patients rather unconvincingly tell themselves, "It is OK to be gay." This approach reverses the feelings and identifications of a closeted identity. In the subjectivity of the latter, heterosexuality is idealized and homosexuality dissociated. After coming out, being gay is idealized, while disapproving feelings are denied. Therapeutic holding entails being able to contain both sides (Winnicott, 1986)…

Read more:

http://www.psychiatrictimes.com/articles/closet-psychological-issues-being-and-coming-out






Photo - GALILEO - This 

NASA poster set [above] showcases the beauty of our solar system and beyond.  

 

Photo,Euphemisms

"Conflict in the Catholic Hierarchy: a study of coping strategies [CDF] in the Hunthausen affair…(pdf)"

Congregation 

for the Doctrine of the Faith : 

Silencing the 

evolution towards

 acceptance of

 homosexuals 

A Timeline: 

1984-1999

The lifetime ban on pastoral work imposed upon Salvatorian Fr. Robert Nugent and School 

Sister of  Notre Dame  Jeannine

 Gramick by Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger is the latest step in an effort by the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith to prevent evolution in church teaching toward acceptance of homosexual conduct. A review of key moments:…

Read more: http://natcath.org/NCR_Online/archives2/1999c/073099/073099e.htm


Vatican Intervenes Against Gay Ministry

By Hanna Rosin

Wednesday, July 14, 1999

Read more:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/national/daily/july99/ministry14.htm



Vatican Document: Gays Have 'Gifts and Qualities to Offer' Church, 

Oct. 13, 2014, Photo



Synod final document reaffirms Church teaching: Vetos gay-friendly statements. Three contentious paragraphs remain

October 26, 2014 Photo




Young Catholics urge Vatican to issue inclusive LGBT message...

Archbishop  Chaput “there is no such thing as an ‘LGBTQ Catholic

October 21, 2018 Photo



(left) Illinois Bishop T. Paprocki Decrees NoCommunion, Funeral Rites For Same-Sex Spouses

June 23, 2017 NPR, Photo


(right) USCCB president, Archbishop Gomez‘deeply concerned’ about U.S. Supreme Court’s ruling that federal law protects LGBTQ workers from discrimination

Jun 16, 2020 - Photo


“Ghosts 

in

 theNursery” 

Selma Fraiberg

http://infantmassage.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/Fraiberg-Ghosts-in-Nursery.pdf





Why Selma Fraiberg’s research is crucial is that it helps to explain how the development of empathy is thwarted in early childhood years growing up gay and remains the same throughout a lifetime. Fraiberg classic research demonstrates how the mistreatment experienced during early childhood years are UNCONSCIOUSLY reenacted in adulthood, thus perpetuating the same form childhood abuse. 


Fraiberg’s research is about observing the interactions of the the mother-infant relationship. She details her observation of a young mother alone with her baby and what happens when her baby begins crying. The infant continues crying non-stop for several minutes and during this time surprisingly the mother was unresponsive to her baby’s distress. The mother made NO EFFORT to soothe her baby i.e. by picking up and holding her baby. Fraiberg’s research focused on answering the question - Why the mother was unresponsive her baby’s distress? In brief, the reason why the mother was unresponsive to her baby crying - was because when the mother was child no one was responsive to her crying. The mother’s mistreatment of her baby was an UNCONSCIOUS reenactment, because no one had the empathy to tune into her distress as a child.


When a gay child is mistreated because the parents perceives the child’s behavior, as young as 4 or 5  years of age. It is a traumatic experience for the child - feeling abandoned. No one had the empathy to tune into this child’s overwhelming most unpleasant feelings. The child’s ability to develop empathy has been seriously thwarted and remains this way throughout a lifetime. Nowhere is this lack of empathy so clearly demonstrated than among the majority of the members of the RC curia and hierarchy. Their complete absence of the science of homosexuality for the past over 60 years, since 1957, and they have remained condemning of gay people - opposed to acknowledging, lacking the ability to tune into, in the least, the reality of their sexual orientation as human beings. Collectively, per Fraiberg, they do not hear or try to understand the reality of gay people, because as very young children no one attempted to hear  or understand them as gay people. These are the GHOSTS in the RC curia and hierarchy, perpetuating violence. These GHOSTS remain among the majority of the members of the RC hierarchy, because they are repressed dissociated homosexuals as is proven by their decades of fierce antigay statements void of the science of homosexuality.


To dispel these ghosts the remedy is as Pope John Paul II writes to  Know Yourself” identify the “Internalized  Homophobia” the internalization of societal antigay attitudes that are unsubstantiated not based on facts and end the perpetuation of this generational form of structural violence.

 

“KNOW YOURSELF”

FIDES ET RATIO

JOHN PAUL II



Internalized Homophobia

Prejudice, Social Stress, and Mental Health in Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Populations: Conceptual Issues and Research Evidence - Psychol Bull. 2003 September ; 129(5): 674–697. - Ilan H. Meyer - Columbia University

…—In the most proximal position along the continuum from the environment to the self, internalized homophobia represents a form of stress that is internal and insidious. In the absence of overt negative events, and even if one’s minority status is successfully concealed, lesbians and gay men may be harmed by directing negative social values toward the self. Thoits (1985, p. 222) described such a process of self-stigmatization, explaining that “role-taking abilities enable individuals to view themselves from the imagined perspective of others. One can anticipate and respond in advance to others’ reactions regarding a contemplated course of action.” 

Clinicians use the term internalized homophobia to refer to the internalization of societal antigay attitudes in lesbians and gay men (e.g., Malyon, 1981–1982). Meyer and Dean (1998) defined internalized homophobia as “the gay person’s direction of negative social attitudes toward the self, leading to a devaluationof the self and resultant internal conflicts and poor self-regard” (p. 161). After they accept their stigmatized sexual orientation, LGB people begin a process of coming out. Optimally, through this process they come to terms with their homosexuality and develop a healthy identity that incorporates their sexuality(Cass, 1979, 1984;Coleman, 1981–1982;Troiden, 1989). Internalized homophobia signifies the failure of the coming out process to ward off stigma and thoroughly overcome negative self-perceptions and attitudes (Morris et al., 2001). Although it is most acute early in the coming out process, it is unlikely that internalized homophobia completely abates even when the person has accepted his or her homosexuality. Because of the strength of early socialization experiences, and because of continued exposure to antigay attitudes, internalized homophobia remains an important factor in the gay person’s psychological adjustment throughout life. Gay people maintain varying degrees of residual antigay attitudes that are integrated into their self- perception that can lead to mental health problems (Cabaj, 1988;Hetrick & Martin, 1984;Malyon, 1981–1982;Nungesser, 1983). Gonsiorek (1988) called such residual internalized homophobia “covert,” and said, “Covert forms of internalized homophobia are the most common. Affected individuals appear to accept themselves, yet sabotage their own efforts in a variety of ways” (p. 117)…

Read more:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2072932/pdf/nihms32623.pdf




STRUCTURAL

 VIOLENCE

by Deborah Du Nann Winter and Dana C. Leighton

“Peace, conflict, and violence: Peace psychology in the 21st century”

Direct violence is horrific, but its brutality usually gets our attention: we notice it, and often respond to it. Structural violence, however, is almost always invisibleembedded in 

ubiquitous social structures, normalized by stable institutions [i.e. the majority of the members of the RC curia and hierarchy are repressed dissociated homosexuals] and regular experience. Structural violence occurs whenever people are disadvantaged by political, legal, economic, or culturaltraditions. Because they are longstanding, structural inequities usually seem ordinary—the way things are and always have been. But structural violence produces suffering and death as often as direct violence does, though the damage is slower, more subtle, more common, and more difficultto repairinvisible forms of structural violence…and the powerful cultural mechanisms that create and maintain them over generations

Read more:

SECTION II STRUCTURAL VIOLENCE

https://cpb-us-w2.wpmucdn.com/u.osu.edu/dist/b/7538/files/2014/10/Section-II-Structural-Violence-Winter-Leighton-28aggie.pdf

Peace, Conflict, and Violence: Peace Psychology for the 21st Century. Englewood Cliffs, New Jersey: Prentice-Hall. http://u.osu.edu/christie/about/peace-conflict-and-violence-peace-psychology-for-the-21st-century/





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LOVE 

IS 

LOVE 

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“Ghosts 

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Selma Fraiberg

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Selma Fraiberg, G.A., M.S.W.

The University of Michigan Medical School 

Professor of Child Psychoanalysis in the Department of Psychiatry

 …Professor Fraiberg's work in early childhood development, especially her research with blind children and other infants "at risk," has brought her international acclaim and recognition as a brilliant and original investigator. An unusually gifted teacher, she has been able to attract to her programs the ablest of students. A sensitive and dedicated clinician, she has served as a role model for generations of students and residents.

 The Regents now salute this distinguished educator and investigator for her dedicated service by naming her Professor Emerita of Child Psychoanalysis.

Read more:

http://faculty-history.dc.umich.edu/faculty/selma-fraiberg/memoir








Selma Fraiberg, G.A., M.S.W. 

The University of Michigan 

Department of Psychiatry

The University of Michigan was the birthplace of the field of infant and early childhood mental health nationally and internationally, which began with the pioneering work of Selma Fraiberg, a social worker in the University of Michigan Department of Psychiatry in the 1970’s. Her work in Psychiatry continues today through the innovative multidisciplinary Zero to Thrive initiative, led by Drs. Kate Rosenblum and Maria Muzik, together with Alison Miller at the School of Public Health.  The Zero to Thrive Translational Research Network harnesses the strength of multidisciplinary faculty across the university focused on the experiences of families with young children facing adversity. 

Learn more:

https://medicine.umich.edu/dept/psychiatry/programs/zero-thrive/about-us


THE

RC CURIA

AND

HIERARCHY


DISREGARDING 

the Science of Homosexuality is - Not to Care and Protect the LIVES of CHILDREN. It is a HEINOUS and GRIEVOUS SIN 

with the Promise of having a MILLSTONE tied around your neck to be DROWNED in the depths of the sea. 

Matthew 18:6


It is a 

HYPOCRITICAL

 Example of the 

RC CURIA and

HIERARCHY for the WORLD to Follow for the Past 63 Years

 (1957) - as it is The Example Followed by Those Who DISREGARD 

the Science of Climate Change!!!






WANT TO SAVE THE GLOBAL 

ENVIRONMENT 

SAVE THE 

LIVES 

OF 

CHILDREN

 GLOBALLY - 

FIRST!!! 

IMMEDIATELY

!!!

And by Your EXAMPLE

 You Will TEACH the WORLD How to care about

CLIMATE CHANGE!!!

IT IS

THE 

HOT

POTATO!!! 




















THIS POST HAS BEEN MOVED TO:



WEDNESDAY, 

JULY 29, 2020

LGBTQ HUMAN BEINGS - ADULTS and CHILDREN ARE DEHUMANIZED BY - U.S. Catholic Bishops - GOMEZ, USCCB president, ‘DEEPLY CONCERNED’ about U.S. Supreme Court’s RULING federal law PROTECTS - LGBTQ Workers from DISCRIMINATION! DISCRIMINATION IS A PROBLEM FOR WHOM?!?

http://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2020/07/lgbtq-human-beings-adults-and-children.html







































VATICAN’S
RC HIERARCHY 
HOMOSEXUALS’
REJECTION SCIENCE
HOMOSEXUALITY IS
Anti-gay 
Hate
 Crimes!!!
of the
RC Hierarchy
Homosexuals -
Standard Practice
Is To Demonize OPENLY Gay Men 
Without Evidence -
Becomes for them “the extremely bad
to be destroyed,
demeaned…represent all that is bad inside 
[the HOMOPHOBIC 
RC Hierarchy], all that overwhelming guilt cannot handle"
Becomes the PROJECTIONS of 
RHierarchy’s
UNWANTED REPRESSED
homosexual impulses -  ATTRIBUTING them to - Openly Gay Men i.e.Mr. Cruz or a gay priest.


This is only one, of many, many, many examples of the above: is the Chilean bishops’ antigay demeaning statements made against Mr. Cruz, an abuse survivor, were a means to control to silence him by destroying his credibility because he was an openly gay man.
“    …Mr. Cruz, through tears, explained that he had told Francis in their nearly three- hour private meeting that he had maintained his Catholic faith even though Chilean bishops had apparently told the pope that he had left the church “for a life of perversion...”


God Made You This Way,’ Pope Is Said to Have Told Gay Man  
May 21, 2018 
  ROME — A Chilean survivor of clerical sex abuse has said that Pope Francis told him in a private meeting this month that God had made him gay and that both God and the pontiff loved him that way, a remarkable expression of inclusion for the leader of the Roman Catholic Church. 
  …Mr. Cruz had already said that Francis had apologized in the meeting for the large-scale sexual abuse scandal involving Chilean clergy members… 
Mr. Cruz, through tears, explained that he had 
told Francis in their nearly three- hour private meeting that he had maintained his 
Catholic faith 
even though the
Chilean bishops had apparently told the 
pope that he had left the church “for a life of perversion.” 
  …Mr. Cruz said that his lawyer warned 
him in 2009 that the church would 
focus on his
homosexuality
leaving him 
vulnerable and 
threatening tmake life 
extremely 
difficult for him. 
  He said that his lawyer later told him that Cardinal Francisco Javier Errázuriz, a confidant of Francis, had raised the question of whether Mr. Cruz could even be considered a victim because, Mr. Cruz said, “I was gay and I might have liked it.” 
  “It was horrible,” he added. “This has always weighed on me.” 

THE 
ABSOLUTE CRUCIAL IMPORTANCE TO
END
THE 
 EVIL 
OF THE
HOMOSEXUAL
MURDEROUS RAGE 
 AND THE 
PERPETUATING 
OF
 GENERATIONAL
 VIOLENCE

KNOW THE SCIENCE!!!
AND
KNOW
 THYSELF!!!




The Eyes Have 
ItSex and 
Sexual Orientation
Differences in 
Pupil Dilation Patterns
August 3, 2012
           …pupil dilation to stimuli indicates activation of the autonomic nervous system. This system is associated with many automatic processes such as perspiration, digestion, blood pressure, and heart rate. For this reason, pupil dilation has been used as indicator of automatic response, for example, in studies of implicit reaction and cognitive load. Other research suggests that pupil dilation can reflect automatic attention, or attention that is likely not in the conscious control of participants. It is therefore unlikely that participants suppress pupil dilation to stimuli they are sexually attracted to. Pupil dilation patterns could therefore reflect, with high sensitivity, automatic attention related to sexual attraction and sexual 



The eye 
is the 
lamp 
of the 
body. 
If your eyes 
are 
healthy, your 
whole 
body will be 
full of light.

But if 
your 
eyes 
are 
unhealthy, 
your 
whole 
body 
will be 
full of
darkness. 
If 
then
 the 
light 
within 
you is 
darkness,
how 
great 
is 
that 
darkness!
Mt 6:22-23


Vatileaks
Vatican newspaper editor accused of gay smear against rival
The editor of the Vatican's daily newspaper has been accused of engineering a dirty tricks campaign against a rival with false accusations of 
a gay affair and harassment. 
23 May 2012 Photo
Curia’s 
Cardinals
Infighting”
“Boffo Method”
“Character 
Assassinations”

























Naturam expellas furca, tamen usque recurret.”
Secrets of the Vatican
Video 1:23:44 March 2014
Transcript FRONTLINE | PBS
Excerpts:
ROBERT MICKENS, Vatican Correspondent, The Tablet: I came here when I was a seminarian in 1986. And I remember I had this very wide-eyed idea of the Vatican, of these holy cardinals and holy men. And I was shocked within a matter of weeks, months, at the careerism, at the sexual innuendo, the— just the whole kind of non-holy life I hadn't expected.
VATICAN GUIDE: [through interpreter] A large part of the hierarchy is [closeted DISSOCIATED
homosexual. Certainly, at the top levels of the churchin the Curia, and many important people, such as bishops and archbishops, are [closeted DISSOCIATEDgay.
NARRATOR: He's a Vatican guide who says he's had relationships with several priests.
VATICAN GUIDE: [through interpreter] Here in Rome, it's very easy to meet a gay priest, on a bus, in a church, and important churches like St. Peter's. It's even easier when you go to gay clubs and gay bars. You see them in the bars, and then at the altar the following Sunday… Read more:http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/frontline/film/secrets-of-the-vatican/transcript/

S*C*A*N*D*A*L ?!? - 
THE VATICAN HAS BEEN THE SOURCE AND BEDROCK OF ENDLESS CLOSETED GAY SCANDALS OF THE CURIA - cardinals, archbishops and bishops!!!

THE VATICAN'S
CLOSETED GAY 
CARDINALS & BISHOPS


the Problem—You Are
“INTERNALIZED HOMOPHOBIA” Photo

SUNDAY, MAY 26, 2019 

Homosexual Acts?!?

UNSUBSTANTIATED

DIABOLICALNONSENSE IS

ENDANGERMENT  https://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2019/05/gay-marriage-proposals-new-hope-truth.html 





RC CURIA 
AND HIERARCHY
Anti-gay 
Hate
 Crimes!!!

SUCH AS THE 

Chilean 

bishops 

ABUSINGMr.Cruz

May 212018:
...Mr. Cruz,through tears,explained that he had told Francis in their nearly three- hour private meeting that he had maintained his 
Catholic faith 
even though the 
Chilean bishops had apparently told the 
pope that he had left the church “for a life of perversion.” 
  …Mr. Cruz said that his lawyer warned him in 2009 that the church would 
focus on his
homosexuality
leaving him 
vulnerable and
 threatening 
tmake life
extremely 

Such 

ANTI-GAYHATE

LASHINGOUT

IS AN 

ULTIMATEINDICATOR 

OF AN 

"Internal

Conflict"

“The PLANK

Luke 6:41-42

With One's

SexualOrientation

What does it mean to have a “pure” heart? A purified heart is the result of a process that implies a liberation and a renunciation. The pure of heart is not born thus, it has lived an interior simplification, learning to renounce evil in itself.
Homophobes 
Might BHidden
 Homosexuals
 April 12, 2012
  Homophobes should consider a little self-reflection, suggests a new study finding those individuals who are most hostile toward gays and hold strong anti-gay views may themselves have same-sex desires, albeit undercover ones.
The prejudice of homophobia may also stem from authoritarian parents, particularly those with homophobic views as well, the researchers added.
   "This study shows that if you are feeling that kind of visceral reaction to an out-group, ask yourself, 'Why?'" co-author Richard Ryan, a professor of psychology at the University of Rochester, said in a statement. "Those intense emotions should serve as a call to self-reflection.”
The research, published in the April 2012 issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, reveals the nuances of prejudices like homophobia, which can ultimately have dire consequences. [The 10 Most Destructive Human Behaviors]
"Sometimes people are threatened by gays and lesbians because they are fearing their own impulses, in a sense they 'doth protest too much,'" Ryan told LiveScience. "In addition, it appears that sometimes those who would oppress others have been oppressed themselves, and we can have some compassion for them too, they may be unaccepting of others because they cannot be accepting of themselves.”…
Hiddehomosexuality
…The research may help to explain the underpinnings of anti-gay bullying and hate crimes, the researchers note. People in denial about their own sexual orientation, perhaps a denial fostered by authoritarian and homophobic parents, may feel a threat from other gay and lesbian individuals. Lashing out may ultimately be an indicator of the person's own internal conflict with sexual orientation.
This inner conflict can be seen in some high-profile cases in which anti-gay public figures are caught engaging in same-sex acts, the researchers say. For instance, evangelical preacher and anti-gay-marriage advocate Ted Haggard was caught in a gay sex scandal in 2006.  And in 2010, prominent anti-gay activist and co-founder of conservative Family Research Council George Rekers was reportedly spotted in 2010 with a male escort rented from Rentboy com. According to news reports, the escort confirmed Rekers is gay.
"We laugh at or make fun of such blatant hypocrisy, but in a real way, these people may often themselves be victims of repression and experience exaggerated feelings of threat," Ryan said.
 "Homophobia inot a laughing matter.
It can sometimes have tragic consequences," as was the case in the 1998 murder of Matthew Shepard, a gay man.
Read more:

Matthew Shepard's Murder: Student Recalls Finding Dying Mathew Tied to Fence — 'Oh My God, It’s a Person!'
Matthew Shepard's murder on Oct. 12, 1998, raised awareness about violence against LGBTQ people https://people.com/crime/matthew-shepard-death-anniversary-20-years/

The mothers of Matthew Shepard and James Byrd look on as President Barack Obama signs into the law the 


A U T O N O M Y
THWARTING
 UPBRINGING
IS 
THE
F A I L U R E 
to 
ACHIEVE 
the
DEVELOPMENTAL 
GOAL of ADOLESCENCE
that  is
UNDERSTANDING 
&
 ACCEPTANCE 
of 
ONE'S 
HOMOSEXUAL SEXUAL ORIENTATION 
as a
GIFT from 
GOD! 
IS
S T A G N A T I O N
IMMATURITY

Cardinal Burke, (LOGICAL FALLACY) Photo 

 Never Developing Into A Fully Functioning 
ADULT 
Individual Person 

PARENTING AND HOMOPHOBIA 
Parental Autonomy
 Support and Discrepancies 
Between Implicit and Explicit Sexual Identities: Dynamics of Self-Acceptance and 
Defense - 2012 
When individuals grow up with autonomy-thwarting parents, they may be prevented from exploring internally endorsed values and identities and as a result shut out aspects of the self perceived to be unacceptable. Given the stigmatization of homosexuality, individuals perceiving low autonomy support from parents may be especially motivated to conceal same-sex sexual attraction, leading to defensive processes such as reaction formation… 
…Psychodynamic traditions hold that people have a preferred view of themselves, which may not reflect reality. When this idealized view is threatened by contradictory thoughts or feelings, people engage in one or more unconscious processes to defend against the threat to self. Among defensive processes that have been recognized as having some empirical support is reaction formation, a process indicated in the modern body of research on self-esteem preservation (e.g., Baumeister, Dale, & Sommer, 1998). Reaction formation refers to the process of adopting values or beliefs, or engaging in behaviors, that are in opposition to feelings or impulses experienced within oneself that are deemed unacceptable. Empirical work has shown reaction formation processes with respect to sexism (Sherman & Garkin, 1980), sex guilt (Morokoff, 1985), and prejudice (Dutton & Lake, 1973), indicating that individuals sometimes defend against self-relevant, threatening information by engaging in opposing behaviors… Read more: https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Cody_DeHaan/publication/221790068_Parental_Autonomy_Support_and_Discrepancies_Between_Implicit_and_Explicit_Sexual_Identities_Dynamics_of_Self-Acceptance_and_Defense/links/0f31752d7447a6e150000000.pdf?
17 Antigay 
Leaders 
Exposed as 
Gay or Bi,
Republican Who Spread Butt on Gay Sex Site Resigns


INTERNALIZED
HOMOPHOBIC
LETHAL
VIOLENCE

What you have said 

in the dark will be heard in the daylight and whatyou 

have 

whispered 

in the ear in the inner rooms will be

 proclaimed

 from the roofs.

Luke 12:3


LET’S 
GROWUP!
STOP
THE
VIOLENCE!
KNOW
THE SCIENCE!!!
AND
KNOW
THYSELF!!!

The martyrs of all times, with their fidelity to Christ, tell us that injustice does
 not have the last word: we can continue to hope 
in the risen Lord.
Pope Francis
24 Apr 2019
HAPPINESS 
IS 
Openly gay pro strongman 
Rob Kearney marries his boyfriend 
Joey Aleixo on St. Patrick’s Day 2019
Mar 19, 2019, Photo
A 
GIFT from 
GOD!
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EARLY CHILDHOOD TRAUMA GROWING UP GAY - Curial RC Hierarchy Members FANATICAL - ANTIGAY - RE-ENACTING - NAZIS “CUMULATIVE RADICALIZATION” "Working Towards the Führer” http://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2019/03/early-childhood-trauma-growing-up-gay.html
THE LETTER
TO STOP
Kids Being Abused!!
By The BREACH Of
The Vatican's 
UNSUBSTANTIATED
Teaching on HOMOSEXUALITY
From  SCIENCE
St. Francis, Cagliari, Sardinia, Italy Photo
Grand Haven Lighthouse Pier Lake Michigan - Photo
‘God Made You This Way,’ Pope Is Said to Have 
old Gay Man, May 21, 2018 - Photo
Chilean bishops offer mass resignation over sex 
abuse scandal, May 18, 2018 - Photo
The Overstimulation of Everyday Life: 1. New Aspects 
of Male Homosexuality
Sidney H. Phillips, M.D., 2002 - Photo 
"Homosexuality: coming out of the confusion”
Sidney H. Phillips, M.D. - Int J Psychoanal
1518 appointed the Papal Master of Ceremonies
- Michelangelo responded by DEPICTING
Cesena, in his “Last Judgment” fresco - 
as the judge of the underworld with - 
snake biting his no-naked area  Photo

The letter dated: July 12, 2017

July 12, 2017 

Bishop David J. Walkowiak
Bishop of the Grand Rapids Diocese
360 Division Avenue S., 
Grand Rapids, MI 49503-4501

Dear Bishop David, 

I received your letter dated October 2015, that included a request to set an appointment to dialogue with you. At the time, my commitments, obligations and lack of financial means did not permit me to follow through. Furthermore, the around trip from Canton, MI to Grand Rapids, MI would have been about eight hours. However, after seeking reliable spiritual direction I was advised to write a letter to accept your request to meet. In the process of writing this letter, I began to thoroughly research the situation, from the combined insight obtained from three professionals perspectives, as a priest, as a psychologist, and as a historian. Through these perspectives, I have analyzed the many ways in which I was a victim of antigay hierarchal violence, having no judicial oversight to appeal to for protection within the church or civilly. This is an unidentified form of structural violence directed not at me alone but also many priests, theologians, sisters, religious and others, including Pope Francis for the past four decades - all have been victims of this form of violence. 

Structural  Violence
Introduction
by Deborah Du Nann Winter and Dana C. Leighton
Peace, conflict, and violence: Peace psychology in the 21st century
  …Direct violence is horrific, but its brutality usually gets our attention: we notice it, and often respond to it. Structural violence, however, is almost always invisibleembedded in ubiquitous social structures, normalized by stable institutions and regular experience. Structural violence occurs whenever people are disadvantaged by political, legal, economic, or cultural traditions. Because they are longstanding, structural inequities usually seem ordinary—the way things are and always have been. But structural violence produces suffering and death as often as direct violence does, though the damage is slower, more subtle, more common, and more difficult to repair. The chapters in this section teach us about some important but invisible forms of structural violence, and alert us to the powerful cultural mechanisms that create and maintain them over generations…
  One outcome of exclusionary thinking is the belief that victims of violence must in some way deserve their plight. But certainly it is easy to see that young children do not deserve to be victims…
Section II:  Winter, D. D., & Leighton, D. C. (2001). Structural violenceIn D. J. Christie, R. V. Wagner, & D. D. Winter (Eds.), Peace, conflict, and violence: Peace psychology in the 21st centuryNew York: Prentice-Hall.

The main purpose of this form of structural violence is to silence and remove anyone in the Church who openly discusses the science on the sexual orientation of homosexuality - gay people. This antigay hierarchical, structural violence has been successful in firmly suppressing this science on homosexuality for the past 60 years. In 1957, world renowned psychologist, Dr. Evelyn Hooker conducted ground breaking research proving that homosexuality is not a mental illness. She proved that being homosexual was just as normal as being heterosexual. For years the hierarchical church has rebuked such scientifically sound findings and have championed the obsessive suppression of gay people. Such actions lead to question who benefits from falsifying truth? The hierarchical church did not suppress the scientific research on heart surgery or cancer for the past 60 years. This vicious form of gay suppression is entrenched in the corruption of the curia in which speaking the truth has become a reprehensible thing. Through my years of analysis, I have come to find that the greatest harm this suppression imposes is on our children.

Truly I tell you, unless you 
change and become like little children, 
you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. 
Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this 
child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. 
And whoever welcomes one such child in 
my name welcomes me. 
Matthew 18: 3-5


…whoever causes one of these 
little ones 
who believe in Me to stumble, 
it would be better for him 
to have a heavy millstone hung around his neck, 
and to be drowned in the 
depth of the sea. 
Matthew 18:6

My “coming out” in March 1997 was all based on substantiated science and scripture. Furthermore, it was motivated to protect defenseless children. How did risking my life by coming out warrant such extreme vindictive retaliation for the past 20 years by members of the curia and hierarchy? 

How did it get twisted around that I refused to return to the Grand Rapids Dioceses, when in fact, it was made clear to me that it was unsafe for me to return by their coercing me to acquiesce to being sent away to be re-educated on the science on the sexual orientation of homosexuality. They wanted me to leave the priesthood on my own, which would be another grave sin to commit. Since I had no recourse to appeal to for justice in 1997 - what recourse would I have available to me if I returned and more severe immoral tactics were used against me?

This tactic of the curia to dispose of someone was most recently demonstrated by Cardinal Raymond Burke firing Boeselager the Grand Chancellor of the Knights of Malta. Burke falsified a papal decision of Pope Francis that no one was to be fired, that the problematic issues with the Knights of Malta should be resolved through dialogue. Burke without any true dialogue with Boeselager stated that it was Pope Francis’s wish that he resign as the Grand Chancellor of the Knights of Malta. When Boeselager refused to resign because of “unreasonable circumstances,” Burke fired him on the grounds of disobedience. Sound familiar?  Boeselager, then appealed directly to Pope Francis and an investigation was ordered into the firing of Boeselager. It was later exposed that the grounds that Burke had used against Boeselager were over “condoms.” However, this information was contrived by a group of Burke’s supporters known as “Lepanto Institute for the Restoration of All Things in Christ.” This group is described as a “militant traditionalist organization close to Burke (Austen Ivereigh).” “This ultraconservative organization specialized in the denunciation of "gays” entering the Church and in attacks on the major development associations that question unfettered economic liberalism (La Croix International).” On February 4, 2017, Pope Francis replaced Cardinal Burke as the Patron of the Sovereign Military Order of Malta and overnight all over Rome appeared posters of Pope Francis with a sad expression with the words - “Where is your mercy?”

It was the truth from science and religion that morally obligated me to come out for the protection of children growing up gay in March 1997. This was an act of love and my duty as a priest. It is the true meaning of being a priest. Pope Francis  on Thursday, June 22, 2017  in his homily during Mass at Casa Santa Marta confirmed this fact stating,"The Good Shepherd gives his life for his sheep,” using as an example the parish priest of Barbiana, Fr. Don Milani, the from the Diocese of Firenze (Florence). 

The research to find the answers to these questions endlessly kept unfolding more and more information that led back in time - more than a century and a half. The research doors were opened wide once Pope Francis was elected and he along with his team of experts, and cardinals began reforming the curia. The research revealed two main historical events that were dependent on exploiting societal prejudices against gay people to rise and to stay in power. The, first, began with the ideology of Nazism promoted by Hitler and the Nazi regime that led to the deaths of 70 million people unprecedented in human history. The, second, began the with ideology of the “trickle-down theory” known as Reaganomics that led to Globalization and the greatest inequality in human history - “A world where 1% of humanity controls as much wealth as the bottom 99% will never be stable (President Obama’s departing speech to the UN General Assembly September 2016). Ian Kershaw explains what Hitler’s place in history will be:

  …Primarily, as the inspiration of the most lethal and destructive war in history, and of the most terrible genocidethe world has ever seen. He left behind him not just physical, but also moral, ruination such as history has never previously experienced. He represented an extreme pathology of modern society. He showed us the most radical face of modern inhumanity – how an advanced society can undergo a breathtaking descent into modern barbarity that’s quite without precedent. That’s what, with the passage of time, we can see was historically defining about Hitler. Never before Hitler’s time had we seen so clearly what human beings are capable of…
  …we shouldn’t mystify Hitler’s personality. The uniquenessof Nazism can’t be reduced to that strange personality. Another time, another place, and Hitler would have had no impact at all. He couldn’t have derailed a modern society without that society itself making a major contribution to its own fate… We shouldn’t be complacent about the future. New forms of fascism and racial intolerance rightly appal and worry us…
  …what we can do is to remind ourselves of the essential point about Hitler: he represented the most fundamental and frontal assault ever launched on all that we associate with humanity and civilisation. 
Excerpt from: - Hitler’s Place in History - Ian Kershaw
Professor of Modern History at Sheffield University
Lecture - Wednesday 27th April 2005

Over the past year and a half - I have been researching and writing 24/7, since I received your letter - gathering significant amounts of factual data on all three levels (as a priest, psychologist and historian). This research includes my personal experience of being a victim of the hierarchical, antigay violence. As it happens when I do research, such as it did when I was doing the qualitative research on the Holocaust in graduate school for psychology, it is only after thoroughly exhausting every possible avenue several times do all the pieces begin to fall into place like  a jigsaw puzzle that a picture is formed. 

The picture centers on the crucial importance for the safety and well-being of all of humanity present and on into the future and is dependent on maintaining an ongoing dialogue between science and religion. This is necessary to obtain truth that which then gives meaning and value to love. Without this truth formed through this process - 

…Love becomes an empty shell, to be filled in an arbitrary way. In a culture without truth, this is the fatal risk facing love. It falls prey to contingent subjective emotions and opinions, the word “love” is abused and distorted,to the point where it comes to mean the opposite… 
Benedict XVI - Caritas in Veritate 2007  2009

Pope Benedict XVI goes on to make the warning that “Any breach in this dialogue comes only at an enormous price to human development…” St. Pope John Paul II made an early statement to this effect explaining how science and religion cannot be separated. He explains - as Benedict does that science is the study of all of God’s creation and religion is formed from the bible, which is the inspired word of God. They both explain how the dialogue between science and religion becomes a self-correcting mechanism of oversight, preventing abuse and maintaining integrity of both science and religion - thus allowing science and religion to guide us on our journey into the future. Both John Paul II and Benedict XVI are writing from their experience having lived through the atrocities of Hitler and the Nazi regime (1933-1945) that resulted from their manipulation and abuse of science and religion to invent a pseudo-science to legitimize Hitler’s ideology of Nazism and pseudo-religious terms to promote it. They experienced living in a social environment saturated in the racial ideology of Nazism - where the meaning of love was so twisted around that in actuality love meant the opposite. Love meant exterminating people considered to be less than human or subhuman - “Life Unworthy Of Life.” 

With the recent election of President Trump we are experiencing living in a similar social environment saturated with the ideology of the “trickle-down theory.” This led to Globalization that was also legitimized by the manipulation of science and religion that twisted the meaning of love around to mean the exact opposite. In addition to Mr. Trump’s behavior, the Republican Convention 2016 slogans, “Lock her up!” (that sounded like the palpable hysteria of the Nazi Party “Sieg Heil” chant at a Cathedral lit Nuremberg Rally of the 1930s) and his being elected US president are all blatant examples of love twisted to mean the opposite. Both the rise of Nazism and Globalization were depended on the exploitation of societal prejudices against gay people. 

However, in regards to rise of the  “trickle-down theory”of the 1980s that led to Globalization - the majority of the members of the curia and hierarchy are responsible for the exploitation of societal prejudices against gay people. The research of Dr. Evelyn Hooker and subsequent research completely dispel prejudices against gay people. Instead of the curia and hierarchy acknowledging the truth of this science - they manipulated religion by misusing the bible and continued to wrongly condemn homosexuality. Thus they twisted the meaning of truth around to the point that it continues to mean the opposite. They and their supporters are not about truth and therefore not about love. They are no different than the palpable hysteria of the Nazi Party “Sieg Heil” members at the Nuremberg Rallies of the 1930s. And this is the violence, their twisted meaning of truth - the complete absence of love, they have used against me and against so many others before and after me. Some of our best and brightest theologians and bridge makers, such as, Sister Jeannine Gramick and Fr. Robert Nugent. Gramick and Nugent have been responsible since 1977 for saving millions of people’s lives, especially very young children. To the best of my knowledge, they were the first to begin an ongoing dialogue on the science of the sexual orientation of homosexuality - gay people and religion - scripture and theology.   

S c i e n c e   can purify religion from error and superstition; 
R e l i g i o n   can purify science from idolatry and false absolutes. 
Each can draw the other into a wider world, 
a world in which both can flourish. 
For the truth of the matter is that the Church and the scientific 
community will inevitably interact; their options 
do not include isolation. 
St. Pope John Paul II - 1988

I came out in March 1997: for the protection of children, as young as 4 and 5 years of age, who are growing up gay. Since then it has become a moral obligation to educate and prevent forced parental suppression and unsubstantiated antigay social and religious norms.What has bothered me ever since was the fact that I found it difficult to find the  r o o t   c a u s e  in understanding “how” and “why” and “when” did the meaning of “love” and “truth” get so monumentally - twisted around; notably among the majority of the members of the curia and hierarchy to mean the exact opposite.

For the past 10 years I have been writing in an effort to explain how this mindless inquisition that started almost immediately after coming out in June 1997 - of being coerced “behind closed doors” by a directive from the curia conveyed by the bishop for me to acquiesce to being sent away “somewhere” to be re-educated on the science on the sexual orientation of homosexuality. This directive was not only shocking, but traumatizing as well. 

This irrational directive from the curia completely negated the immediate need of protecting the lives of millions of very young defenseless children from lifelong debilitating harmful effects. It also negated the wealth of the authoritative substantiated research gathered from the major medical and mental health associations, institutions, and organizations, including universities. This was the reason for my “coming out.” 

Through knowledge acquired during my studies at the University of Michigan and attending the American Psychological Association National Conventions my research was reinforced on the science of sexual orientation. The action of the curia and hierarchy was a blatant affront, a direct attack on truth and love, as taught and embodied in Jesus Christ, of which the entire purpose and meaning of priesthood is based on. It was like a supervisor telling a heart surgeon that he is going to be be sent away on a sabbatical to be reeducated on the ancient system of medicine known as “bloodletting.” I cannot explain how twisted it sounded - to be told such absurdity!!! “Who in the hell is running this ship?!?” I was 47 years old at the time.

How did the curia and hierarchy cause a breach in the dialogue between science and religion that ended up twisting the meaning of love around to mean the opposite?

We will learn from studying the - science on sexual orientation that it is composed of interrelated biological and psychological processes that are not able to be consciously controlled or suppressed. These interrelated processes function outside our conscious awareness - automatically and continuously throughout life as part of the autonomic nervous system - like the heart beating and breathing. The continuous functioning of our sexual orientation - is essential in meeting our most basic human need for love, attachment, intimacy, through which empathy is developed. The continuous functioning of our sexual orientation is as vital to human survival from the beginning of life to the end - as the heart beating and breathing. Any attempt to force the suppression of a child’s gay sexual orientation is the same as suppressing the heart and breathing rate which can cause a number of lifelong adverse effects (persistent form of depression (dysthymia), suicidal ideation, and obsessive dislike for gay people that is implicit, to explicit verbal expressions of hate, to lethal forms of violence, and torture).

The majority of the members of the curia and hierarchy are European. They are the ones who grew up in the toxic antigay social environments left behind by Hitler’s Nazi regime. This begins to explain the long history of the majority of the members of the curia and hierarchy’s collective obsessive antigay crusade. This collective thought suppressed all emerging science on homosexuality for the past 60 years. For these members of the curia and hierarchy the thought of gay science has been a long closed door slammed shut in their early childhood years. This was out of great fear from their witnessing the terror in the adult’s warnings of how Hitler treated priests who were found out to be homosexuals. As this trauma of the early childhood events are not remembered, only the emotional terror of the event remains. It is this emotional terror that is wrongly mistaken as an innate guiding voice of their conscience strongly conveying to them that homosexuality is evil. This misunderstanding then becomes a force that completely obliterates years of scientific research on homosexuality. It is more likely that such scientific research ignites seemingly unending waves of unexplainable terror. That door slammed tightly shut - is the breach in the dialogue between science and religion on the issue of homosexuality. This is a childhood defense mechanism. It is the only means available to the child to stop the unending waves of fear. However, as adults, these childhood defenses must be reexamined in a safe environment - to be challenged in the adult dialogue between science and religion on issues of homosexuality. As Pope Benedict XVI explains, this is the only process to find truth and give real value and meaning to the understanding of love. I do not presume this to be an easy task to unravel and should only be attempted in a safe environment. However, this situation - is not unusual - it brings to mind the words of St. Paul to be understood with great care and empathy.  

When I was a child, I talked like a child, 
I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. 
When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.
1 Corinthians 13:11

No, no, no this type of breach in the dialogue between science and religion on gay sexual orientation has to stop! Justice demands that I be exonerated and proper restitution be made for all harm endured, including the lost salary for the past 20 years to be made quickly. Not to follow through on this road of true justice is to continue this breach in the dialogue between science and religion on gay sexual orientation. Am I, like so many others, going to be made an example of what happens when a priest speaks aloud the truth? Will this be a situation reminiscent of Hitler’s regime to remove and silence Anti-Nazi priests? Are you going demonstrate publicly how an advanced society of people made a major contribution to the modern barbarity of Hitler and the Nazi regime by their complicity and indifference?

 My moral obligation as a priest is to protect people, especially children.

I look forward to setting a time to dialogue the reality of this situation in the light of the warnings of both St. Pope John Paul II and Pope Benedict XVI while maintaining an open discussion between science and religion for the search of truth that leads to love. 

Sincerely yours, 

Fr. Marty Kurylowicz 

Cc. Pope Francis
PS. For more information on the: 
Science of Homosexual Sexual Orientation 
Gay Adult Porn & Homophobia - Who views it the most and why?
Vatican’s Swiss Guards Break Up a 
D r u g - F u e l e d   G a y   
O r g y 
 at the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith - July 2017
“Priests In Panties” 2010 
Who is the blame for all the gay closeted sexual acting-out scandals at the Vatican?
Can be found online at the -Thalamus Center 
Saturday, July 1, 2017 - Pope Francis - Teaches the World to Dance the TANGO - the Dance of LOVE - INCLUSION - through - DIALOGUE! - http://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2017/07/pope-francis-teaches-world-to-dance.html

Enclosures:

Letter from Bishop Walkowiak
Bishop of Grand Rapids Diocese - Dated, September 17, 2015 

Letter from Archbishop Joël Mercier
Secretary of the Congregation for the Clergy - 3 March 2015 

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The end of the letter.
Fr. Marty Kurylowicz - June 9, 2017  
                     



FIDES ET RATIO

“KNOW YOURSELF”

JOHN PAUL II 
This above all: 
to thine own self 
be true,
 And it must follow, 
as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man. 
William Shakespeare

Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your 
brother's eye and pay no attention to the 
plank in your own eye? How can you 
say to your brother, 'Brother, 
let me take the speck 
out of your eye,
'when you yourself fail to see the 
plank in your own eye? You hypocrite,
 first take the plank out of your eye, and 
then you will see clearly to remove 
the speck from your brother's eye. 
Luke 6:40-42

Kids 

Are Being

 Abused!


Dissociation    
S e l e c t i v e   
I n a t t e n t i o n 
From  L O V E
Killing Empathy 
Creating Narcissists 
as fully demonstrated by the members of the 
Roman Catholic 
Curia & Hierarchy
NARCISSISM
THE BIRTHING OF 
CLERICALISM 





Homosexual Identities
In the developmental histories of gay men and women, periods of difficulty in acknowledging their homosexuality, either to themselves or to others, are often reported. Children who grow up to be gay rarely receive family support in dealing with anti-homosexual prejudices. On the contrary, beginning in 
childhood--and distinguishing them from racial and ethnic minorities--gay people are often subjected to the antihomosexual attitudes of their own families and communities (Drescher et al., 2004). Antihomosexual attitudes include homophobia (Weinberg, 1972), heterosexism (Herek, 1984), moral condemnations of homosexuality (Drescher, 1998) and antigay violence (Herek and Berrill, 1992). Hiding activities learned in childhood often persist into young adulthood, middle age and even senescence, leading many gay people to conceal important aspects of themselves… 

DISSOCIATION

What psychological mechanisms facilitate separating one's sexual identity from the rest of one's persona? Sullivan's (1956) concept of dissociation may be illuminating, particularly its most common aspect: selective inattentionA ubiquitous, nonpathological process, selective inattention makes life more manageable, like tuning out the background noise on a busy street. However, through dissociation of anxiety-provoking knowledge about the self, a whole double life can be lived and yet, in some ways, not be known. Clinical presentations of closeted gay people may lie somewhere in severity between selective inattention--most commonly seen in the case of homosexually self-aware patients thinking about "the possibility" that they might be gay--to more severe dissociation-- in which any hint of same-sex feelings resides totally out of conscious awareness. More severe forms of dissociation are commonly observed in married men who are homosexually self-aware but cannot permit the thought of themselves as gay (Roughton, 2002). Read more: http://www.psychiatrictimes.com/articles/closet-psychological-issues-being-and-coming-out

child’s sexual orientation is not about sexual behavior - it is about LOVE, wanting to feel one with another. Depending on the severity of this rejection of a child’s expression of love - the child wants to desperately please his parents and will learn to hid from his parent such emotions of love that are disturbing to them. He will even hide them from himself and thus begins the mental dissociation of this child - attempting to suppress the never ending - regular functioning of his sexual orientation of the emotional impulses - to be loved and to love and to feel one with another.




However, a person’s sexual orientation like the heart beating, breathing, sexual arousal, etc., are all under the control autonomic nervous system that operates automatically and unconsciously - they cannot be suppressed. 






SUNDAY, MAY 26, 2019 
UNSUBSTANTIATED
DIABOLICAL NONSENSE 
CHILD ENDANGERMENT!!!  https://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2019/05/gay-marriage-proposals-new-hope-truth.html 


PORNOGRAPHY Is Not the problem—You Are 

"Pupil dilation patterns could therefore reflect, with high sensitivity, automatic attention related to sexual attraction and sexual orientation…"

"Clinical presentations of closeted gay people may lie somewhere in severity between selective inattention--most commonly seen in the case of homosexually self-aware patients thinking about "the possibility" that they might be gay--to more severe dissociation--in which any hint of same-sex feelings resides totally out 
of conscious awareness"
Brokeback Mountain” 2005
AUSCHWITZ - CHRISTMAS 2008 - A flashback far more severe than in
BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN
December 26, 2008 – Fr. Marty Kurylowicz


I have been so saddened by Pope Benedict XVI's cruel words to LGBTQ people around the world, to their parents, families and friends, most ESPECIALLY TO CHILDREN. After reading the accounts of this human travesty, I did not know where to find comfort or hope. And then I thought about your blog. And just like receiving a wonderful Christmas present, sure enough I found the hope and comfort I needed to hear. 

I am a priest and a clinical psychologist (MS). And for one of my research projects I chose to do a qualitative research project of the recorded verbal accounts of survivors of the Holocaust, 50 years after the event. It was a difficult research project, because I could not make sense of one of the accounts of the survivors. 

For example, one survivor was describing what it was like riding the train to AUSCHWITZ, but he was describing how he was trying to make conversation with a girl on the train. I listened and wrote out this one account almost 30 times but I just was not getting it. I could not understand how this man could be talking about wanting to make conversation with this girl on the same train to AUSCHWITZ!?! 

Because I had taught high school religion classes for nearly 20 years, it hit me hard, like a flash of lightning. Instantly, all the pieces came together, so fast. Though this survivor was in his late 60’s when he gave his account of his story on audiotape, he was remembering the events that took place, but naturally they were recounted through the mind of a teenager, the age he was on the train to AUSCHWITZ. That is why the dialogue wasn’t making any sense. I was thinking of him as an old man because the voice on the audiotape was the voice of a 68-year-old. As shocking as a bomb going off, all the different aspects of the psychological developmental stages of a teenager kicked in. I realized only too fully that he was just a young normal teenager on that train!!! And so was the girl he was trying to make conversation, and their moms and dads were there with them!!! There was no way to pretend I did not realize what I discovered. It kept hitting me: this is not some script from a movie or TV miniseries on the Holocaust. No; as much as I wished it were. The reality of this horror hit me all at once, on so many different levels of consciousness: what an unbelievable horror it was!!! How could we treat human beings like this! I remember when the realization of the magnitude of this horror first hit me, like an instant reflex. I threw down the transcript I was holding as if it were a blazing hot poker. It kept hitting me over and over again that this is not a movie script or some kind of play – this really happened! It really happened! Oh, my God, how could this have happened!?!!!

My supervisor told me at the time that I was traumatized by the oral content. Qualitative research is an attempt to understand the complexity of emotions, the kinds of emotions, and the degree of intensity involved. Our emotions are what allow us to connect with other human beings. We identify with the non-verbal quality of emotions more immediately and strongly than with the words used to express them. The non-verbal qualities include tone of voice, eye contact, facial expression, body posture, and gestures, all of which express emotions. Emotions are why we can connect with people through time, across cultures, and individually. It is the expression of human emotions in the arts that makes some works of art timeless, because they continually speak to all people through the ages. 

And when I heard what Pope Benedict XVI said about homosexuals and transgendered human beings at Christmas 2008, I felt that same trauma all over again. Because in some way, somehow, he was conveying in a non-verbal manner the horror of the Holocaust, in what appears to be a traumatized, trance-like, accepted social norm from that period of time dictating that some people just don’t count, aren’t important, and can be easily disposed of. And if you rock the boat, you could be next to be disposed of.

I truly have to believe that a person in his position would not be doing this consciously or intentionally. The horror of the Holocaust is like an atomic bomb with fallout so extensive that it spreads over a radius of more than 150 miles. The horror of the Holocaust began in 1933 and ended in 1945. The psychological fallout would have been far more extensive and more deadly, especially when it is not identified as such.

It hit me the way it did when I realized that the research I was doing about a Holocaust survivor, a man 68 years old telling his story, who was remembering what it was like to be on the train to AUSCHWITZ, from the perspective of a young teenage boy who just wanted to talk to a girl. It seemed like the same kind of horror, a tacit assumption that some people don't count and can be disposed of without remorse. Could it be that Benedict XVI is unconsciously repeating Hitler's crime against humanity by taking on a long-accepted social attitude from that period of time? 

The question I asked myself was: what would it have been like for someone growing up gay during the Nazi Persecution of Homosexuals 1933 -1945

What would be the severity of the psychological effects on a boy who grew up to be gay in Germany during the time of Hitler’s NAZI PERSECUTION OF HOMOSEXUALS 1933 -1945? During the Nazi regime, homosexuals were publicly defamed and falsely accused for the major social problems of that time, which was done to incite massive public hatred and hostility directed against homosexuals. Homosexuals were used for medical experiments, physically mutilated, brutally tortured and exterminated.

Would this child, as an adult, in a severe dissociated state of mind from his own homosexual feelings (Harry Stack Sullivan MD, Dissociative Processes, Clinical Studies on Psychiatry (1956)), unconsciously perpetuate the terrifying horror of the insensitivity he had experienced growing up? If he found himself in a position of authority would he recreate the same social and political environment of violence and terror for homosexuals that he experienced, as a child who grew up to be gay, during the NAZI PERSECUTION OF HOMOSEXUALS? 

I think in truth on a much deeper level I was frightened, really frightened, to hear Pope Benedict XVI’s Christmas remarks against homosexuals and transgendered human beings and even more frightened by the silence from the larger global community of human beings. What is so frightening is, even if there is agreement that one person does not matter or is not important, in truth then no one matters. Therefore, when I thought about your blog and what you did on October 5, 2008, I felt more reassured, I felt hope, and I felt comforted. NOW, isn’t that the true meaning of Christmas? 

God Bless you,

Fr. Marty Kurylowicz

. . . .Written by Martin S. Kurylowicz, M.Div., M.S.
Edited by Madeline Wright, Ph.D., M.S. . . .
  
“What you cannot do is accept injustice. From Hitler – or anyone. You must make the injustice visible – be prepared to die like a soldier to do so.”
Mahatma Gandhi

INVISIBLE
INJUSTICE
THE VIOLENCE OF 
RC HIERARCHY’S 
REJECTION
OF THE 
SCIENCE 
ON HOMOSEXUALITY IS 
STRUCTURAL 
VIOLENCE
IS
CHILD 
ENDANGERMENT
Child Endangerment refers to an act or omission that renders a child to psychologicalemotional or physical abuse. Child abuse based on the offense of child endangerment is normally a misdemeanor, but endangerment that results in mental illness or serious physical illness or injury is a felonyRead more:https://definitions.uslegal.com/c/child-endangerment/


REJECTING A CHILD
GAY SEXUAL ORIENTATION 
 THE ADULT VICTIMS

 RC HIERARCHY 
RAISED IN
ANTIGAY SOCIAL ENVIRONMENTS 
(THE BREACH - Vatican’s unsubstantiated teaching on homosexuality - rejecting the science on homosexuality -  NO DIALOGUE is obsessively fiercely enforced)
IS THE ROOT CAUSE OF 
"rigidity"

THEY WERE 
NEVER ALLOWED TO DEVELOP LEARNING TO LOVE -  
TO GROW UP DUE TO…

RC HIERARCHY
ADULT VICTIMS  
A LIFETIME SUFFERING FROM THE  -INABILITY TO LOVE AND TO BE LOVED 
LIVING A LIFETIME IN ISOLATION
THE CLOSET 
A MOST SUFFOCATING EXISTENCE
RC HIERARCHY'S
RE-ENACTMENTS
RECREATING THEIR LOVELESS CLOSET
GLOBALLY

HAS BECOME
THE RC HIERARCHY'S

RC HIERARCHY
PERPETUATING
SAME LIFETIME VIOLENCE OF THIS
EARLY CHILDHOOD ABUSE 

STRUCTURAL VIOLENCE
by Deborah Du Nann Winter and Dana C. Leighton
“Peace, conflict, and violence: Peace psychology in the 21st century”
Direct violence is horrific, but its brutality usually gets our attention: we notice it, and often respond to it. Structural violence, however, is almost always invisible, embedded in ubiquitous social structures, normalized by stable institutions and regular experience. Structural violence occurs whenever people are disadvantaged by political, legal, economic, or cultural traditions. Because they are longstanding, structural inequities usually seem ordinary—the way things are and always have been. But structural violence produces suffering and death as often as direct violence does, though the damage is slower, more subtle, more common, and more difficult to repair. The chapters in this section teach us about some important but 
invisible forms of structural violence, and alert us to the powerful cultural
 mechanisms that create and maintain them over generations
Read more:
SECTION II STRUCTURAL VIOLENCE
Peace, Conflict, and Violence: Peace Psychology for the 21st Century. Englewood Cliffs, New Jersey: Prentice-Hall. http://u.osu.edu/christie/about/peace-conflict-and-violence-peace-psychology-for-the-21st-century/