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Merry Christmas

 

Peace Prayer of 

St. Francis




































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For ‘Christmas of the Pandemic,’ Pope gives Curia a lesson on left v. right

Dec 21, 2020

ROME – For what he defined as the “Christmas of the pandemic,” Pope Francis gave the Vatican power structure a unique present Monday: A meditation on the difference between “crisis,” which he said can be life-giving, and “conflict,” including ideological struggles of left v. right, which the pope said is destructive.

Without naming them, Francis also acknowledged the impact of church scandals over the past year, but insisted they’re not the whole story.

“Problems immediately end up in the newspapers,” the pontiff said, “while signs of hope only make the news much later, if at all.”

The core of his message was an invitation to see the difficulties facing both the broader society and the Church as a crisis, which can lead to renewal, rather than an occasion of conflict.

“When the Church is viewed in terms of conflict – right versus left, progressive versus traditionalist – she becomes fragmented and polarized, distorting and betraying her true nature,” the pope said during his annual speech to members of the Roman Curia.

The Church is “a body in continual crisis, precisely because she is alive,” he said, but stressed that it “must never become a body in conflict, with winners and losers, for in this way she would spread apprehension, become more rigid and less synodal, and impose a uniformity far removed from the richness and plurality that the Spirit has bestowed on his Church.”…

Read more:

https://cruxnow.com/vatican/2020/12/for-christmas-of-the-pandemic-pope-gives-curia-a-lesson-on-left-v-right/




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Address of His Holiness Pope Francis to The Roman Curia 

Benediction Hall

Monday, 21 December 2020

http://www.vatican.va/content/francesco/en/speeches/2020/december/documents/papa-francesco_20201221_curia-romana.html



crisis

life-giving


The way that Pope Francis describes the church in crisis conveys a collective communal foundation (the common ground) that is securely built around a faithful, over time, lived experience of the fullness of Christ’s teachings that becomes a laser focus of collaborative effort working forward to resolve the crisis.


Get this!!! To profess that we are a ‘follower of Christ’ is a whole lot more than just professing the pop pious notion that ‘Jesus loves us all, yes I know.’ It is about spending a lifetime attempting to conform our personal lives to every word of Christ. For example: we are not only to forgive our enemies, i.e. people who have harmed us (including e.g. people who have not harmed us, but people who we just cannot stand, we hate to be around, etc…), but we are also to love them!!! 


Very truly I tell you, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds.


Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life. Whoever serves me must follow me; and where I am, my servant also will be. My Father will honor the one who serves me.

John 12:24-26


Trying to put these words of Christ 'to forgive and love our enemies' into practice - can feel like it will kill us, like we are dying, turning us ‘inside out’ or ‘upside down’, etc… 


Silver and gold are purified by fire, but God purifies hearts.

Proverbs 17:3-5


However, through this slow painstaking - a type of metamorphosis process - we are being purified by God - making us whole, unifying, bringing clarity to us - out of our confusion ultimately revealing our true selves, exposing our true nature - as created out of God’s love.  


Love for Enemies

“But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them. Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do to others as you would have them do to you.


“If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full. But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.

Luke 6:27-36



It is an impossible job, however, with all the strength of our heart, soul, and mind, we never ever give up trying - we stay ever focused on conforming our personal lives to every word of Christ, no matter how many times may fall short or fail. This cannot be even attempted without prayer … tremendous, tremendous amounts of daily for DECADES of prayer. The need for this tremendous amounts of ongoing prayer - may be more truer for me than others. This is due to what has been though I am generally noted by people of having an overall congenial personality - I have a real deep, deep seated relentless tenacious attitude that is not easily triggered. It is immediately triggered into white hot anger that is productively expressed through professional protective action when children are being harmed, harmed for life. The degree of this my professional protective action of children has been publicly demonstrated by my “coming out” March 1997 and that has continued to be relentlessly ongoing right up to the present day. And I have suffered the same kind of severe hierarchical character assassination attacks that Mr. Cruz, the Chilean adult child abuse survivor (May 2018), experienced by the Chilean bishops’ public antigay demeaning statements made against Mr. Cruz.




‘God Made You This Way,’ Pope Is Said to Have Told Gay Man 

May 21, 2018 

ROME — A Chilean survivor of clerical sex abuse has said that Pope Francis told him in a private meeting this month that God had made him gay and that both God and the pontiff loved him that way, a remarkable expression of inclusion for the leader of the Roman Catholic Church. 
“He said to me, ‘Juan Carlos that’s not a problem,’ ” said Juan Carlos Cruz, the abuse survivor, describing having told the pope he was gay in a long meeting in the Vatican. “You have to be happy with who you are. God made you this way and loves you this way, and the pope loves you this way.” …
…Mr. Cruz had already said that Francis had apologized in the meeting for the large-scale sexual abuse scandal involving Chilean clergy members… Mr. Cruz, through tears, explained that he had told Francis in their nearly three- hour private meeting that he had maintained his Catholic faith even though Chilean bishops had apparently told the pope that he had left the church “for a life of perversion.” 
…During a trip to Chile this year, the pope repeatedly defended a Chilean bishop against accusations of a cover-up. Francis called the claims of abuse survivors “calumny.” 
The resulting backlash forced him to send the Vatican’s top sex-crimes investigator to Chile. He returned with a scathing, 2,300-page report that suggested that bishops there had misled the pope and destroyed records to prevent the public from learning that abusive priests had been moved from diocese to diocese. Francis said the systemic failures had left him “perplexed and ashamed.” 
…Mr. Cruz said that his lawyer warned him in 2009 that the church would focus on his homosexuality, leaving him vulnerable and threatening to make life extremely difficult for him. 
He said that his lawyer later told him that Cardinal Francisco Javier Errázuriz, a confidant of Francis, had raised the question of whether Mr. Cruz could even be considered a victim because, Mr. Cruz said, “I was gay and I might have liked it.” 
“It was horrible,” he added. “This has always weighed on me.” 
In his meeting with Francis on a Sunday at his Santa Marta residence, Mr. Cruz said he had told the pope that he was worried he would think less of him. Mr. Cruz acknowledged that he was gay and, jokingly, not the reincarnation of Saint Aloysius Gonzaga, a model of the virtue of purity, but someone who tried to be “a good person.” 
and


As a faithful priest for 41 years and a psychologist, I found that in analogizing this process of prayer over time of continuously attempting to conform one’s self to every word of Christ, such as forgiving and loving our enemies, depending on the degree of our sincerity - a type of metamorphosis - a maturing spiritually and psychologically (an ongoing dialogue between science and religion to find truth and discover love) happens to us without us being aware that it it is happening. This is because I have found that somehow simultaneously on different levels over time: we become ever more deeply focused on Christ on what it means to love our enemies. It means that we are beginning to learn through prayer and ‘trial and error’ how to stop self-righteously without any self-knowledge of forcefully judging others (i.e. name calling, viciously demeaning and gossiping about others that in truth, in reality we know little to absolutely nothing about). We begin to learn the meaning of Christ’s words about ‘the plank & the speck (Matthew 7:3-5)’ that at times can be extremely painful, how to honestly identify and admit that the faults that we so easily, thoughtlessly and emphatically condemn others being guilty of having are, in fact, blatantly so deeply rooted in ourselves. 



conflict

destructive


Pope Francis’s description of the church in conflict conveys the idea that there is no collective communal foundation (no common ground) that is securely built on the fullness of Christ’s teachings. Instead it exposes separately how fragmented and polarized, personally each individual involved in the conflict is distorting and betraying their respective true nature, lacking the evolving degree of humility and unifying clarity of peace of mind that unexpectedly comes from sincerely attempting to follow every word of Christ.


Because the individuals involved in the conflict, for whatever reason, do not have, the lived experience, over time, of the spiritual struggles, and agony through endless prayer of attempting with all the strength of heart, soul, and mind to conform one’s life to the fullness of Christ that is to be faithful to the one and only commandment that Jesus gave us:    


A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.

John 13:34-35




Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”

Matthew 22:37-40





To be continued:


Fr. Marty Kurylowicz

























Photo, Pope Francis


The Son of God was born an outcast, in order to tell us that every outcast is a child of God. He came into the world as each child comes into the world, weak and vulnerable, so that we can learn to accept our weaknesses with tender love.

Pope Francis, Dec. 29, 2020


Pope Francis (@Pontifex) · Twitter

https://twitter.com/Pontifex/status/1343897051814387715?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Etweet




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“Ghosts in the Nursery” 

Selma Fraiberg

http://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2020/07/lgbtq-human-beings-adults-and-children.html





Katie Couric

sets out across America to meet with leading scientists, 

physicians and 

experts to answer questions about

gender 

and 

gender identity





Photo, DisneyPlus, Photo, National Geographic

Journeys Film Guide, 

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Gender Revolution: A Journey with Katie Couric 

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Katie Couric explores questions about gender identity with experts and everyday people, shedding light on untold stories of love and struggles. 


Katie Couric sets out across America to meet with leading scientists,

 physicians and experts to answer questions about gender and gender identity. She speaks with everyday people who find their lives and bodies on the front-line of a changing world. This film examines the role of science, society and culture on gender; shedding light on stories of struggle, understanding, ignorance, and love.

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Gender Revolution: A Journey with Katie Couric is a special two-hour documentary on the shifting landscape of gender. Although one’s gender identity is an intensely personal subject, the individuals in this feature agreed to share their stories. Journeys in Film created a guide that can help parents and educators better understand and discuss the meaning of gender.

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The Eyes Have 
It: Sex and 
Sexual Orientation
Differences in 
Pupil Dilation Patterns
August 3, 2012
           …Pupil dilation patterns could therefore reflect, with high sensitivity, automatic attention related to sexual attraction and sexual 

The

'specks & planks’

of the 

sexual orientation 

of

Homosexuality

in the eye 

Matthew 7:3-5

Luke 6:41-42


Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your 

brother's eye and pay no attention to the 

plank [lump of wood] in your own eye? How can you 

say to your brother, 'Brother, 

let me take the speck 

out of your eye,

'when you yourself fail to see the 

plank [lump of wood] in your own eye? You hypocrite,

 first take the plank [lump of wood] out of your eye, and 

then you will see clearly to remove 

the speck from your brother's eye. 

Luke 6:40-42




 The 

’planks’ 

of
In The 

Eye




'There Is An
In The
& The































Photos

The Unbelievable Immense Overstock of The Un-removed "planks" [lumps of wood] ('specks & planks' Matthew 7:3-5, Luke 6:41-42) From The EYES of  The RC’S Curia & Hierarchy! Leaving Their planks [lumps of wood] of

 ‘Internalized Homophobia'

 Piled To The Sky In Lumber Yards




Vatican’s 

RC HIERARCHY 

Repressed 

HOMOSEXUALS’



REJECTION

REJECTION

REJECTION 

of the

SCIENCE

SCIENCE

SCIENCE

on

Homosexuality

IS




Chaput, Vigano,  

“INTERNALIZED HOMOPHOBIA” 

Photo

Photo, Photo


Anti-gay 
Hate
 Crimes!!!
of the
RC Hierarchy
Homosexuals -
Standard Practice
Is To Demonize OPENLY Gay Men 
Without Evidence -
Becomes for them “the extremely bad, 
to be destroyed,
demeaned…represent all that is bad inside 
[the HOMOPHOBIC 
RC Hierarchy], all that overwhelming guilt cannot handle"
Becomes the PROJECTIONS of 
RC Hierarchy’s
UNWANTED REPRESSED
homosexual impulses -  ATTRIBUTING them to - Openly Gay Men i.e.Mr. Cruz or a gay priest.


This is only one, of many, many, many examples of the above: is the Chilean bishops’ antigay demeaning statements made against Mr. Cruz, an abuse survivor, were a means to control to silence him by destroying his credibility because he was an openly gay man.
“    …Mr. Cruz, through tears, explained that he had told Francis in their nearly three- hour private meeting that he had maintained his Catholic faith even though Chilean bishops had apparently told the pope that he had left the church “for a life of perversion...”


God Made You This Way,’ Pope Is Said to Have Told Gay Man  
May 21, 2018 
  ROME — A Chilean survivor of clerical sex abuse has said that Pope Francis told him in a private meeting this month that God had made him gay and that both God and the pontiff loved him that way, a remarkable expression of inclusion for the leader of the Roman Catholic Church. 
  …Mr. Cruz had already said that Francis had apologized in the meeting for the large-scale sexual abuse scandal involving Chilean clergy members… 
Mr. Cruz, through tears, explained that he had 
told Francis in their nearly three- hour private meeting that he had maintained his 
Catholic faith 
even though the
Chilean bishops had apparently told the 
pope that he had left the church “for a life of perversion.” 
  …Mr. Cruz said that his lawyer warned 
him in 2009 that the church would 
focus on his
homosexuality, 
leaving him 
vulnerable and 
threatening to make life 
extremely 
difficult for him. 
  He said that his lawyer later told him that Cardinal Francisco Javier Errázuriz, a confidant of Francis, had raised the question of whether Mr. Cruz could even be considered a victim because, Mr. Cruz said, “I was gay and I might have liked it.” 
  “It was horrible,” he added. “This has always weighed on me.” 

THE 
ABSOLUTE CRUCIAL IMPORTANCE TO
END
THE 
 EVIL 
OF THE
HOMOSEXUAL
MURDEROUS RAGE 
 AND THE 
PERPETUATING 
OF
 GENERATIONAL
 VIOLENCE: 

KNOW THE SCIENCE!!!
AND
KNOW
 THYSELF!!!




The Eyes Have 
It: Sex and 
Sexual Orientation
Differences in 
Pupil Dilation Patterns
August 3, 2012
           …pupil dilation to stimuli indicates activation of the autonomic nervous system. This system is associated with many automatic processes such as perspiration, digestion, blood pressure, and heart rate. For this reason, pupil dilation has been used as indicator of automatic response, for example, in studies of implicit reaction and cognitive load. Other research suggests that pupil dilation can reflect automatic attention, or attention that is likely not in the conscious control of participants. It is therefore unlikely that participants suppress pupil dilation to stimuli they are sexually attracted to. Pupil dilation patterns could therefore reflect, with high sensitivity, automatic attention related to sexual attraction and sexual 



Vatileaks
Vatican newspaper editor accused of gay smear against rival
The editor of the Vatican's daily newspaper has been accused of engineering a dirty tricks campaign against a rival with false accusations of 
a gay affair and harassment. 
23 May 2012 Photo
Curia’s 
Cardinals
“Infighting”
“Boffo Method”
“Character 
Assassinations”







“Naturam expellas furca, tamen usque recurret.”
Secrets of the Vatican
Video 1:23:44 March 2014
Transcript FRONTLINE | PBS
Excerpts:
…ROBERT MICKENS, Vatican Correspondent, The Tablet: I came here when I was a seminarian in 1986. And I remember I had this very wide-eyed idea of the Vatican, of these holy cardinals and holy men. And I was shocked within a matter of weeks, months, at the careerism, at the sexual innuendo, the— just the whole kind of non-holy life I hadn't expected.
VATICAN GUIDE: [through interpreter] A large part of the hierarchy is [closeted DISSOCIATED] 
homosexual. Certainly, at the top levels of the church, in the Curia, and many important people, such as bishops and archbishops, are [closeted DISSOCIATED] gay.
NARRATOR: He's a Vatican guide who says he's had relationships with several priests.
VATICAN GUIDE: [through interpreter] Here in Rome, it's very easy to meet a gay priest, on a bus, in a church, and important churches like St. Peter's. It's even easier when you go to gay clubs and gay bars. You see them in the bars, and then at the altar the following Sunday… Read more:http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/frontline/film/secrets-of-the-vatican/transcript/


S*C*A*N*D*A*L ?!? - 
THE VATICAN HAS BEEN THE SOURCE AND BEDROCK OF ENDLESS CLOSETED GAY SCANDALS OF THE CURIA - cardinals, archbishops and bishops!!!

THE VATICAN'S

“50 SHADES OF" 

CLOSETED GAY 

CARDINALS & BISHOPS



PORNOGRAPHY 

Is Not the Problem—You Are

“INTERNALIZED HOMOPHOBIA” Photo




SUNDAY, MAY 26, 2019 

Homosexual

 Acts?!?

UNSUBSTANTIATED

DIABOLICAL

NONSENSE IS










‘God Made You This Way,’ Pope Is Said to Have Told Gay Man 

May 21, 2018 

ROME — A Chilean survivor of clerical sex abuse has said that Pope Francis told him in a private meeting this month that God had made him gay and that both God and the pontiff loved him that way, a remarkable expression of inclusion for the leader of the Roman Catholic Church. 
“He said to me, ‘Juan Carlos that’s not a problem,’ ” said Juan Carlos Cruz, the abuse survivor, describing having told the pope he was gay in a long meeting in the Vatican. “You have to be happy with who you are. God made you this way and loves you this way, and the pope loves you this way.” …
…Mr. Cruz had already said that Francis had apologized in the meeting for the large-scale sexual abuse scandal involving Chilean clergy members… Mr. Cruz, through tears, explained that he had told Francis in their nearly three- hour private meeting that he had maintained his Catholic faith even though Chilean bishops had apparently told the pope that he had left the church “for a life of perversion.” 
…During a trip to Chile this year, the pope repeatedly defended a Chilean bishop against accusations of a cover-up. Francis called the claims of abuse survivors “calumny.” 
The resulting backlash forced him to send the Vatican’s top sex-crimes investigator to Chile. He returned with a scathing, 2,300-page report that suggested that bishops there had misled the pope and destroyed records to prevent the public from learning that abusive priests had been moved from diocese to diocese. Francis said the systemic failures had left him “perplexed and ashamed.” 
…Mr. Cruz said that his lawyer warned him in 2009 that the church would focus on his homosexuality, leaving him vulnerable and threatening to make life extremely difficult for him. 
He said that his lawyer later told him that Cardinal Francisco Javier Errázuriz, a confidant of Francis, had raised the question of whether Mr. Cruz could even be considered a victim because, Mr. Cruz said, “I was gay and I might have liked it.” 
“It was horrible,” he added. “This has always weighed on me.” 
In his meeting with Francis on a Sunday at his Santa Marta residence, Mr. Cruz said he had told the pope that he was worried he would think less of him. Mr. Cruz acknowledged that he was gay and, jokingly, not the reincarnation of Saint Aloysius Gonzaga, a model of the virtue of purity, but someone who tried to be “a good person.” 
and


 Photo, Chilean bishops
...Mr. Cruz,through tears,explained that he had told Francis in their nearly three- hour private meeting that he had maintained his 
Catholic faith 
even though the 
Chilean bishops had apparently told the 
pope that he had left the church “for a life of perversion.” 
  …Mr. Cruz said that his lawyer warned him in 2009 that the church would 
focus on his
homosexuality, 
leaving him 
vulnerable and
 threatening 
to make life
extremely 

Such 

ANTI-GAY

HATE

LASHING

OUT

IS AN 

ULTIMATE

INDICATOR 

OF AN 

"Internal

Conflict"

“The 

PLANK”

Luke 6:41-42

With One's

Sexual

Orientation

What does it mean to have a “pure” heart? A purified heart is the result of a process that implies a liberation and a renunciation. The pure of heart is not born thus, it has lived an interior simplification, learning to renounce evil in itself.
Homophobes 
Might Be Hidden
 Homosexuals
 April 12, 2012
  Homophobes should consider a little self-reflection, suggests a new study finding those individuals who are most hostile toward gays and hold strong anti-gay views may themselves have same-sex desires, albeit undercover ones.
The prejudice of homophobia may also stem from authoritarian parents, particularly those with homophobic views as well, the researchers added.
   "This study shows that if you are feeling that kind of visceral reaction to an out-group, ask yourself, 'Why?'" co-author Richard Ryan, a professor of psychology at the University of Rochester, said in a statement. "Those intense emotions should serve as a call to self-reflection.”
The research, published in the April 2012 issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, reveals the nuances of prejudices like homophobia, which can ultimately have dire consequences. [The 10 Most Destructive Human Behaviors]
"Sometimes people are threatened by gays and lesbians because they are fearing their own impulses, in a sense they 'doth protest too much,'" Ryan told LiveScience. "In addition, it appears that sometimes those who would oppress others have been oppressed themselves, and we can have some compassion for them too, they may be unaccepting of others because they cannot be accepting of themselves.”…
Hidden 
homosexuality
…The research may help to explain the underpinnings of anti-gay bullying and hate crimes, the researchers note. People in denial about their own sexual orientation, perhaps a denial fostered by authoritarian and homophobic parents, may feel a threat from other gay and lesbian individuals. Lashing out may ultimately be an indicator of the person's own internal conflict with sexual orientation.
This inner conflict can be seen in some high-profile cases in which anti-gay public figures are caught engaging in same-sex acts, the researchers say. For instance, evangelical preacher and anti-gay-marriage advocate Ted Haggard was caught in a gay sex scandal in 2006.  And in 2010, prominent anti-gay activist and co-founder of conservative Family Research Council George Rekers was reportedly spotted in 2010 with a male escort rented from Rentboy com. According to news reports, the escort confirmed Rekers is gay.
"We laugh at or make fun of such blatant hypocrisy, but in a real way, these people may often themselves be victims of repression and experience exaggerated feelings of threat," Ryan said.
 "Homophobia is not a laughing matter.
It can sometimes have tragic consequences," as was the case in the 1998 murder of Matthew Shepard, a gay man.
Read more:

Matthew Shepard's Murder: Student Recalls Finding Dying Mathew Tied to Fence — 'Oh My God, It’s a Person!'
Matthew Shepard's murder on Oct. 12, 1998, raised awareness about violence against LGBTQ people https://people.com/crime/matthew-shepard-death-anniversary-20-years/


The mothers of Matthew Shepard and James Byrd look on as President Barack Obama signs into the law the 


A U T O N O M Y
THWARTING
 UPBRINGING
IS 
THE
F A I L U R E 
to 
ACHIEVE 
the
DEVELOPMENTAL 
GOAL of ADOLESCENCE
that  is
UNDERSTANDING 
&
 ACCEPTANCE 
of 
ONE'S 
HOMOSEXUAL SEXUAL ORIENTATION 
as 

A

Gift From 

GOD!

THE

F A I L U R E

IS

S T A G N A T I O N

IMMATURITY

DEVELOPING

IN VARYING DEGREES

INTO  

NARCISSISTIC 

SOCIOPATHS

COMMITTING

VIOLENCE

LETHAL

ANTI-GAY

VIOLENCE

i.e. As demonstrated by the Majority of the members of 

RC curia and hierarchy - dissociated/repressed homosexuals  
































CIRCULAR REASONING

Cardinal Burke, LOGICAL FALLACY 

Photo 

THE

F A I L U R E

to 
ACHIEVE 
the
DEVELOPMENTAL 
GOAL of ADOLESCENCE
that  is
UNDERSTANDING 
&
 ACCEPTANCE 
of 
ONE'S 
HOMOSEXUAL SEXUAL ORIENTATION 
as 

A

Gift

 From 

GOD!

Is

 Never Developing 

Into A 

Fully Functioning



Empathetic

ADULT

Individual Person 

Because from early childhood years growing up - they never experienced parental empathy or acceptance in regards to their sexual orientation - their gay sexual orientation. Instead, they experienced continuously, as very young children at 4 and 5 years of age, the traumatic fear of parental rejection and abandonment for exhibiting outward signs of being gay - a concept that they at that age as children have yet to develop the mental capacity to have any understanding what “gay” means. 


Therefore, they never experienced anyone showing them empathy - trying to understand who they are as an individual, instead they only experienced who their parents wanted them to be and out of childhood traumatic fear of parental abandonment they obeyed their parents without question. They never learned what empathy means, instead they learned how to be violent, how to inflict severe pain on others - with a lack of conscience. They are being raised in varying degrees to be sociopaths - to be as mean as you can be!!!


thesaurus definition:

mean 2

adjective

- a mean trick: unkind, nasty, unpleasant, spiteful, malicious, unfair, cruel, shabby, foul, despicable, contemptible, obnoxious, vile, odious, loathsome, base, low; informal horrible, horrid, hateful, rotten, lowdown; beastly. ANTONYMS kind.


And far worst this severe form of child abuse is condoned and advocated by the Vatican’s unsubstantiated (voided of science - the BREACH) teaching on homosexuality - as the will of God!!! 


The Majority of the 

RC PRELATES have proven to be adult victims of this severe form of child abuse and are continuing to perpetuate this same violent form of child abuse globally without question, as they did as children - by promoting the Vatican’s unsubstantiated (voided of science - the BREACH) teaching on homosexuality - as the will of God!!!



Excerpts below from:

http://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2020/10/jimmy-kimmel-live-announced-that-pope.html




Since 1981

Beginning 

with the

Obsessive

Anti-gay

VIOLENCE

of the

Vatican’s   

‘Congregation 

for the 

Doctrine of the Faith’

Intentionally

ORCHESTRATED    

Highly Publicized

Draconian

 Intimidation

disciplinary

Attracts in the

Hunthausen 

Affair - 

The

Majority 

of the 

RC PRELATES

have Obsessively 

Publicly Demonstrated

that they

Are 

Adult Victims

Perpetuating

the same

Lifelong 

harmful effects of

Early Childhood Abuse

growing up gay

child abuse

1981


The Root Cause

The Vatican's Teaching on Homosexuality is UNSUBSTANTIATED (not based on the science on homosexuality), it is a “BREACH” (Caritas in veritate Pope Benedict XVI 2009) and its influence is life-threatening to children, GLOBALLY, in their early childhood psychological developmental years growing up gay causing lifelong harmful effects. It is a form of “structural violence” an unidentified form of child abuse. It NEEDS to be immediately 

RENOUNCED by the Vatican because it is NOT based on TRUTH and without 

truth there is no LOVE!!!

Kids Are Being Hurt!!! 



The majority of the members of RC curia and hierarchy are adult victims of this form of “structural violence” the unidentified form of child abuse caused by the influence of the Vatican’s

 UNSUBSTANTIATED 

teaching on homosexuality and by UNSUBSTANTIATED

 antigay social norms and prejudges 

varying in degrees of severity depending on the type of social environments they were raised in (i.e. Argentina, Nazi 

Germany, and the USA - McCarthy era “lasting from the late 1940s through the 1950s” note: Cardinal Raymond Burke born in Wisconsin 1948). 





Photo, Pope Francis


This is identifiable in the stark contrast in the adult behavioral reactions between Pope Francis and the majority of the members of RC curia and hierarchy most especially regarding whenever any positive statement is made about LGBTQ people i.e. 2013 "Who am I to judge?", Synod sessions 2014, 2015, the latest is Pope Francis statement supporting same-sex civil union law for their protection...

Read more:

http://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2020/10/jimmy-kimmel-live-announced-that-pope.html






 Photo, Photo, 
Selma Fraiberg
 


PARENTING AND HOMOPHOBIA 
Parental Autonomy
 Support and Discrepancies 
Between Implicit and Explicit Sexual Identities: Dynamics of Self-Acceptance and 
Defense - 2012 
When individuals grow up with autonomy-thwarting parents, they may be prevented from exploring internally endorsed values and identities and as a result shut out aspects of the self perceived to be unacceptable. Given the stigmatization of homosexuality, individuals perceiving low autonomy support from parents may be especially motivated to conceal same-sex sexual attraction, leading to defensive processes such as reaction formation… 
…Psychodynamic traditions hold that people have a preferred view of themselves, which may not reflect reality. When this idealized view is threatened by contradictory thoughts or feelings, people engage in one or more unconscious processes to defend against the threat to self. Among defensive processes that have been recognized as having some empirical support is reaction formation, a process indicated in the modern body of research on self-esteem preservation (e.g., Baumeister, Dale, & Sommer, 1998). Reaction formation refers to the process of adopting values or beliefs, or engaging in behaviors, that are in opposition to feelings or impulses experienced within oneself that are deemed unacceptable. Empirical work has shown reaction formation processes with respect to sexism (Sherman & Garkin, 1980), sex guilt (Morokoff, 1985), and prejudice (Dutton & Lake, 1973), indicating that individuals sometimes defend against self-relevant, threatening information by engaging in opposing behaviors… Read more: https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Cody_DeHaan/publication/221790068_Parental_Autonomy_Support_and_Discrepancies_Between_Implicit_and_Explicit_Sexual_Identities_Dynamics_of_Self-Acceptance_and_Defense/links/0f31752d7447a6e150000000.pdf?

17 Antigay 

Leaders 

Exposed as 

Gay or Bi,

Republican Who Spread Butt on Gay Sex Site Resigns 



































Basilica of St. Adalbert 

(Grand Rapids, Michigan)


Cathedral of Saint Andrew 

(Grand Rapids, Michigan) 

 LET’S 
GROWUP!
STOP
THE
VIOLENCE!
KNOW
THE SCIENCE!!!
AND
KNOW
THYSELF!!!


The martyrs of all times, with their fidelity to Christ, tell us that injustice does

 not have the last word: we can continue to hope 

in the risen Lord.

Pope Francis

24 Apr 2019


HAPPINESS 

IS 

Openly gay pro strongman 
Rob Kearney marries his boyfriend 
Joey Aleixo on St. Patrick’s Day 2019
Mar 19, 2019, Photo

A

Gift 

From 

GOD!

Read complete post:
EARLY CHILDHOOD TRAUMA GROWING UP GAY - Curial RC Hierarchy Members FANATICAL - ANTIGAY - RE-ENACTING - NAZIS “CUMULATIVE RADICALIZATION” "Working Towards the Führer” http://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2019/03/early-childhood-trauma-growing-up-gay.html
THE LETTER
TO STOP
Kids Being Abused!!! 
By The BREACH Of
The Vatican's 
UNSUBSTANTIATED
Teaching on HOMOSEXUALITY
From  SCIENCE
St. Francis, Cagliari, Sardinia, Italy Photo
Grand Haven Lighthouse Pier Lake Michigan - Photo
‘God Made You This Way,’ Pope Is Said to Have 
old Gay Man, May 21, 2018 - Photo
Chilean bishops offer mass resignation over sex 
abuse scandal, May 18, 2018 - Photo
The Overstimulation of Everyday Life: 1. New Aspects 
of Male Homosexuality
Sidney H. Phillips, M.D., 2002 - Photo 
"Homosexuality: coming out of the confusion”
Sidney H. Phillips, M.D. - Int J Psychoanal
1518 appointed the Papal Master of Ceremonies
- Michelangelo responded by DEPICTING
Cesena, in his “Last Judgment” fresco - 
as the judge of the underworld with - 
a snake biting his no-naked area  Photo

The letter dated: July 12, 2017

July 12, 2017 

Bishop David J. Walkowiak
Bishop of the Grand Rapids Diocese
360 Division Avenue S., 
Grand Rapids, MI 49503-4501

Dear Bishop David, 

I received your letter dated October 2015, that included a request to set an appointment to dialogue with you. At the time, my commitments, obligations and lack of financial means did not permit me to follow through. Furthermore, the around trip from Canton, MI to Grand Rapids, MI would have been about eight hours. However, after seeking reliable spiritual direction I was advised to write a letter to accept your request to meet. In the process of writing this letter, I began to thoroughly research the situation, from the combined insight obtained from three professionals perspectives, as a priest, as a psychologist, and as a historian. Through these perspectives, I have analyzed the many ways in which I was a victim of antigay hierarchal violence, having no judicial oversight to appeal to for protection within the church or civilly. This is an unidentified form of structural violence directed not at me alone but also many priests, theologians, sisters, religious and others, including Pope Francis for the past four decades - all have been victims of this form of violence. 

Structural  Violence
Introduction
by Deborah Du Nann Winter and Dana C. Leighton
Peace, conflict, and violence: Peace psychology in the 21st century
  …Direct violence is horrific, but its brutality usually gets our attention: we notice it, and often respond to it. Structural violence, however, is almost always invisible, embedded in ubiquitous social structures, normalized by stable institutions and regular experience. Structural violence occurs whenever people are disadvantaged by political, legal, economic, or cultural traditions. Because they are longstanding, structural inequities usually seem ordinary—the way things are and always have been. But structural violence produces suffering and death as often as direct violence does, though the damage is slower, more subtle, more common, and more difficult to repair. The chapters in this section teach us about some important but invisible forms of structural violence, and alert us to the powerful cultural mechanisms that create and maintain them over generations…
  One outcome of exclusionary thinking is the belief that victims of violence must in some way deserve their plight. But certainly it is easy to see that young children do not deserve to be victims…
Section II:  Winter, D. D., & Leighton, D. C. (2001). Structural violence. In D. J. Christie, R. V. Wagner, & D. D. Winter (Eds.), Peace, conflict, and violence: Peace psychology in the 21st century. New York: Prentice-Hall.

The main purpose of this form of structural violence is to silence and remove anyone in the Church who openly discusses the science on the sexual orientation of homosexuality - gay people. This antigay hierarchical, structural violence has been successful in firmly suppressing this science on homosexuality for the past 60 years. In 1957, world renowned psychologist, Dr. Evelyn Hooker conducted ground breaking research proving that homosexuality is not a mental illness. She proved that being homosexual was just as normal as being heterosexual. For years the hierarchical church has rebuked such scientifically sound findings and have championed the obsessive suppression of gay people. Such actions lead to question who benefits from falsifying truth? The hierarchical church did not suppress the scientific research on heart surgery or cancer for the past 60 years. This vicious form of gay suppression is entrenched in the corruption of the curia in which speaking the truth has become a reprehensible thing. Through my years of analysis, I have come to find that the greatest harm this suppression imposes is on our children.

Truly I tell you, unless you 
change and become like little children, 
you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. 
Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this 
child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. 
And whoever welcomes one such child in 
my name welcomes me. 
Matthew 18: 3-5


…whoever causes one of these 
little ones 
who believe in Me to stumble, 
it would be better for him 
to have a heavy millstone hung around his neck, 
and to be drowned in the 
depth of the sea. 
Matthew 18:6

My “coming out” in March 1997 was all based on substantiated science and scripture. Furthermore, it was motivated to protect defenseless children. How did risking my life by coming out warrant such extreme vindictive retaliation for the past 20 years by members of the curia and hierarchy? 

How did it get twisted around that I refused to return to the Grand Rapids Dioceses, when in fact, it was made clear to me that it was unsafe for me to return by their coercing me to acquiesce to being sent away to be re-educated on the science on the sexual orientation of homosexuality. They wanted me to leave the priesthood on my own, which would be another grave sin to commit. Since I had no recourse to appeal to for justice in 1997 - what recourse would I have available to me if I returned and more severe immoral tactics were used against me?

This tactic of the curia to dispose of someone was most recently demonstrated by Cardinal Raymond Burke firing Boeselager the Grand Chancellor of the Knights of Malta. Burke falsified a papal decision of Pope Francis that no one was to be fired, that the problematic issues with the Knights of Malta should be resolved through dialogue. Burke without any true dialogue with Boeselager stated that it was Pope Francis’s wish that he resign as the Grand Chancellor of the Knights of Malta. When Boeselager refused to resign because of “unreasonable circumstances,” Burke fired him on the grounds of disobedience. Sound familiar?  Boeselager, then appealed directly to Pope Francis and an investigation was ordered into the firing of Boeselager. It was later exposed that the grounds that Burke had used against Boeselager were over “condoms.” However, this information was contrived by a group of Burke’s supporters known as “Lepanto Institute for the Restoration of All Things in Christ.” This group is described as a “militant traditionalist organization close to Burke (Austen Ivereigh).” “This ultraconservative organization specialized in the denunciation of "gays” entering the Church and in attacks on the major development associations that question unfettered economic liberalism (La Croix International).” On February 4, 2017, Pope Francis replaced Cardinal Burke as the Patron of the Sovereign Military Order of Malta and overnight all over Rome appeared posters of Pope Francis with a sad expression with the words - “Where is your mercy?”

It was the truth from science and religion that morally obligated me to come out for the protection of children growing up gay in March 1997. This was an act of love and my duty as a priest. It is the true meaning of being a priest. Pope Francis  on Thursday, June 22, 2017  in his homily during Mass at Casa Santa Marta confirmed this fact stating,"The Good Shepherd gives his life for his sheep,” using as an example the parish priest of Barbiana, Fr. Don Milani, the from the Diocese of Firenze (Florence). 

The research to find the answers to these questions endlessly kept unfolding more and more information that led back in time - more than a century and a half. The research doors were opened wide once Pope Francis was elected and he along with his team of experts, and cardinals began reforming the curia. The research revealed two main historical events that were dependent on exploiting societal prejudices against gay people to rise and to stay in power. The, first, began with the ideology of Nazism promoted by Hitler and the Nazi regime that led to the deaths of 70 million people unprecedented in human history. The, second, began the with ideology of the “trickle-down theory” known as Reaganomics that led to Globalization and the greatest inequality in human history - “A world where 1% of humanity controls as much wealth as the bottom 99% will never be stable (President Obama’s departing speech to the UN General Assembly September 2016).‟ Ian Kershaw explains what Hitler’s place in history will be:

  …Primarily, as the inspiration of the most lethal and destructive war in history, and of the most terrible genocidethe world has ever seen. He left behind him not just physical, but also moral, ruination such as history has never previously experienced. He represented an extreme pathology of modern society. He showed us the most radical face of modern inhumanity – how an advanced society can undergo a breathtaking descent into modern barbarity that’s quite without precedent. That’s what, with the passage of time, we can see was historically defining about Hitler. Never before Hitler’s time had we seen so clearly what human beings are capable of…
  …we shouldn’t mystify Hitler’s personality. The uniquenessof Nazism can’t be reduced to that strange personality. Another time, another place, and Hitler would have had no impact at all. He couldn’t have derailed a modern society without that society itself making a major contribution to its own fate… We shouldn’t be complacent about the future. New forms of fascism and racial intolerance rightly appal and worry us…
  …what we can do is to remind ourselves of the essential point about Hitler: he represented the most fundamental and frontal assault ever launched on all that we associate with humanity and civilisation. 
Excerpt from: - Hitler’s Place in History - Ian Kershaw
Professor of Modern History at Sheffield University
Lecture - Wednesday 27th April 2005

Over the past year and a half - I have been researching and writing 24/7, since I received your letter - gathering significant amounts of factual data on all three levels (as a priest, psychologist and historian). This research includes my personal experience of being a victim of the hierarchical, antigay violence. As it happens when I do research, such as it did when I was doing the qualitative research on the Holocaust in graduate school for psychology, it is only after thoroughly exhausting every possible avenue several times do all the pieces begin to fall into place like  a jigsaw puzzle that a picture is formed. 

The picture centers on the crucial importance for the safety and well-being of all of humanity present and on into the future and is dependent on maintaining an ongoing dialogue between science and religion. This is necessary to obtain truth that which then gives meaning and value to love. Without this truth formed through this process - 

…Love becomes an empty shell, to be filled in an arbitrary way. In a culture without truth, this is the fatal risk facing love. It falls prey to contingent subjective emotions and opinions, the word “love” is abused and distorted,to the point where it comes to mean the opposite… 
Benedict XVI - Caritas in Veritate 2007  2009

Pope Benedict XVI goes on to make the warning that “Any breach in this dialogue comes only at an enormous price to human development…” St. Pope John Paul II made an early statement to this effect explaining how science and religion cannot be separated. He explains - as Benedict does that science is the study of all of God’s creation and religion is formed from the bible, which is the inspired word of God. They both explain how the dialogue between science and religion becomes a self-correcting mechanism of oversight, preventing abuse and maintaining integrity of both science and religion - thus allowing science and religion to guide us on our journey into the future. Both John Paul II and Benedict XVI are writing from their experience having lived through the atrocities of Hitler and the Nazi regime (1933-1945) that resulted from their manipulation and abuse of science and religion to invent a pseudo-science to legitimize Hitler’s ideology of Nazism and pseudo-religious terms to promote it. They experienced living in a social environment saturated in the racial ideology of Nazism - where the meaning of love was so twisted around that in actuality love meant the opposite. Love meant exterminating people considered to be less than human or subhuman - “Life Unworthy Of Life.” 

With the recent election of President Trump we are experiencing living in a similar social environment saturated with the ideology of the “trickle-down theory.” This led to Globalization that was also legitimized by the manipulation of science and religion that twisted the meaning of love around to mean the exact opposite. In addition to Mr. Trump’s behavior, the Republican Convention 2016 slogans, “Lock her up!” (that sounded like the palpable hysteria of the Nazi Party “Sieg Heil” chant at a Cathedral lit Nuremberg Rally of the 1930s) and his being elected US president are all blatant examples of love twisted to mean the opposite. Both the rise of Nazism and Globalization were depended on the exploitation of societal prejudices against gay people. 

However, in regards to rise of the  “trickle-down theory”of the 1980s that led to Globalization - the majority of the members of the curia and hierarchy are responsible for the exploitation of societal prejudices against gay people. The research of Dr. Evelyn Hooker and subsequent research completely dispel prejudices against gay people. Instead of the curia and hierarchy acknowledging the truth of this science - they manipulated religion by misusing the bible and continued to wrongly condemn homosexuality. Thus they twisted the meaning of truth around to the point that it continues to mean the opposite. They and their supporters are not about truth and therefore not about love. They are no different than the palpable hysteria of the Nazi Party “Sieg Heil” members at the Nuremberg Rallies of the 1930s. And this is the violence, their twisted meaning of truth - the complete absence of love, they have used against me and against so many others before and after me. Some of our best and brightest theologians and bridge makers, such as, Sister Jeannine Gramick and Fr. Robert Nugent. Gramick and Nugent have been responsible since 1977 for saving millions of people’s lives, especially very young children. To the best of my knowledge, they were the first to begin an ongoing dialogue on the science of the sexual orientation of homosexuality - gay people and religion - scripture and theology.   

S c i e n c e   can purify religion from error and superstition; 
R e l i g i o n   can purify science from idolatry and false absolutes. 
Each can draw the other into a wider world, 
a world in which both can flourish. 
For the truth of the matter is that the Church and the scientific 
community will inevitably interact; their options 
do not include isolation. 
St. Pope John Paul II - 1988

I came out in March 1997: for the protection of children, as young as 4 and 5 years of age, who are growing up gay. Since then it has become a moral obligation to educate and prevent forced parental suppression and unsubstantiated antigay social and religious norms.What has bothered me ever since was the fact that I found it difficult to find the  r o o t   c a u s e  in understanding “how” and “why” and “when” did the meaning of “love” and “truth” get so monumentally - twisted around; notably among the majority of the members of the curia and hierarchy to mean the exact opposite.

For the past 10 years I have been writing in an effort to explain how this mindless inquisition that started almost immediately after coming out in June 1997 - of being coerced “behind closed doors” by a directive from the curia conveyed by the bishop for me to acquiesce to being sent away “somewhere” to be re-educated on the science on the sexual orientation of homosexuality. This directive was not only shocking, but traumatizing as well. 

This irrational directive from the curia completely negated the immediate need of protecting the lives of millions of very young defenseless children from lifelong debilitating harmful effects. It also negated the wealth of the authoritative substantiated research gathered from the major medical and mental health associations, institutions, and organizations, including universities. This was the reason for my “coming out.” 

Through knowledge acquired during my studies at the University of Michigan and attending the American Psychological Association National Conventions my research was reinforced on the science of sexual orientation. The action of the curia and hierarchy was a blatant affront, a direct attack on truth and love, as taught and embodied in Jesus Christ, of which the entire purpose and meaning of priesthood is based on. It was like a supervisor telling a heart surgeon that he is going to be be sent away on a sabbatical to be reeducated on the ancient system of medicine known as “bloodletting.” I cannot explain how twisted it sounded - to be told such absurdity!!! “Who in the hell is running this ship?!?” I was 47 years old at the time.

How did the curia and hierarchy cause a breach in the dialogue between science and religion that ended up twisting the meaning of love around to mean the opposite?

We will learn from studying the - science on sexual orientation that it is composed of interrelated biological and psychological processes that are not able to be consciously controlled or suppressed. These interrelated processes function outside our conscious awareness - automatically and continuously throughout life as part of the autonomic nervous system - like the heart beating and breathing. The continuous functioning of our sexual orientation - is essential in meeting our most basic human need for love, attachment, intimacy, through which empathy is developed. The continuous functioning of our sexual orientation is as vital to human survival from the beginning of life to the end - as the heart beating and breathing. Any attempt to force the suppression of a child’s gay sexual orientation is the same as suppressing the heart and breathing rate which can cause a number of lifelong adverse effects (persistent form of depression (dysthymia), suicidal ideation, and obsessive dislike for gay people that is implicit, to explicit verbal expressions of hate, to lethal forms of violence, and torture).

The majority of the members of the curia and hierarchy are European. They are the ones who grew up in the toxic antigay social environments left behind by Hitler’s Nazi regime. This begins to explain the long history of the majority of the members of the curia and hierarchy’s collective obsessive antigay crusade. This collective thought suppressed all emerging science on homosexuality for the past 60 years. For these members of the curia and hierarchy the thought of gay science has been a long closed door slammed shut in their early childhood years. This was out of great fear from their witnessing the terror in the adult’s warnings of how Hitler treated priests who were found out to be homosexuals. As this trauma of the early childhood events are not remembered, only the emotional terror of the event remains. It is this emotional terror that is wrongly mistaken as an innate guiding voice of their conscience strongly conveying to them that homosexuality is evil. This misunderstanding then becomes a force that completely obliterates years of scientific research on homosexuality. It is more likely that such scientific research ignites seemingly unending waves of unexplainable terror. That door slammed tightly shut - is the breach in the dialogue between science and religion on the issue of homosexuality. This is a childhood defense mechanism. It is the only means available to the child to stop the unending waves of fear. However, as adults, these childhood defenses must be reexamined in a safe environment - to be challenged in the adult dialogue between science and religion on issues of homosexuality. As Pope Benedict XVI explains, this is the only process to find truth and give real value and meaning to the understanding of love. I do not presume this to be an easy task to unravel and should only be attempted in a safe environment. However, this situation - is not unusual - it brings to mind the words of St. Paul to be understood with great care and empathy.  

When I was a child, I talked like a child, 
I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. 
When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.
1 Corinthians 13:11

No, no, no this type of breach in the dialogue between science and religion on gay sexual orientation has to stop! Justice demands that I be exonerated and proper restitution be made for all harm endured, including the lost salary for the past 20 years to be made quickly. Not to follow through on this road of true justice is to continue this breach in the dialogue between science and religion on gay sexual orientation. Am I, like so many others, going to be made an example of what happens when a priest speaks aloud the truth? Will this be a situation reminiscent of Hitler’s regime to remove and silence Anti-Nazi priests? Are you going demonstrate publicly how an advanced society of people made a major contribution to the modern barbarity of Hitler and the Nazi regime by their complicity and indifference?

 My moral obligation as a priest is to protect people, especially children.

I look forward to setting a time to dialogue the reality of this situation in the light of the warnings of both St. Pope John Paul II and Pope Benedict XVI while maintaining an open discussion between science and religion for the search of truth that leads to love. 

Sincerely yours, 

Fr. Marty Kurylowicz 

Cc. Pope Francis
PS. For more information on the: 
• Science of Homosexual Sexual Orientation 
• Gay Adult Porn & Homophobia - Who views it the most and why?
• Vatican’s Swiss Guards Break Up a 
• D r u g - F u e l e d   G a y   
O r g y 
 at the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith - July 2017
• “Priests In Panties” 2010 
• Who is the blame for all the gay closeted sexual acting-out scandals at the Vatican?
Can be found online at the -Thalamus Center 
• Saturday, July 1, 2017 - Pope Francis - Teaches the World to Dance the TANGO - the Dance of LOVE - INCLUSION - through - DIALOGUE! - http://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2017/07/pope-francis-teaches-world-to-dance.html

Enclosures:

Letter from Bishop Walkowiak
Bishop of Grand Rapids Diocese - Dated, September 17, 2015 

Letter from Archbishop Joël Mercier
Secretary of the Congregation for the Clergy - 3 March 2015 

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The end of the letter.
Fr. Marty Kurylowicz - June 9, 2017  
                     



FIDES ET RATIO

“KNOW YOURSELF”

JOHN PAUL II 
This above all: 
to thine own self 
be true,
 And it must follow, 
as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man. 
William Shakespeare

Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your 
brother's eye and pay no attention to the 
plank in your own eye? How can you 
say to your brother, 'Brother, 
let me take the speck 
out of your eye,
'when you yourself fail to see the 
plank in your own eye? You hypocrite,
 first take the plank out of your eye, and 
then you will see clearly to remove 
the speck from your brother's eye. 
Luke 6:40-42

Kids 

Are Being

 Abused!


Dissociation    
S e l e c t i v e   
I n a t t e n t i o n 
From  L O V E
Killing Empathy 
Creating Narcissists 
as fully demonstrated by the members of the 
Roman Catholic 
Curia & Hierarchy
NARCISSISM
THE BIRTHING OF 
CLERICALISM 





Homosexual Identities
In the developmental histories of gay men and women, periods of difficulty in acknowledging their homosexuality, either to themselves or to others, are often reported. Children who grow up to be gay rarely receive family support in dealing with anti-homosexual prejudices. On the contrary, beginning in 
childhood--and distinguishing them from racial and ethnic minorities--gay people are often subjected to the antihomosexual attitudes of their own families and communities (Drescher et al., 2004). Antihomosexual attitudes include homophobia (Weinberg, 1972), heterosexism (Herek, 1984), moral condemnations of homosexuality (Drescher, 1998) and antigay violence (Herek and Berrill, 1992). Hiding activities learned in childhood often persist into young adulthood, middle age and even senescence, leading many gay people to conceal important aspects of themselves… 

DISSOCIATION

What psychological mechanisms facilitate separating one's sexual identity from the rest of one's persona? Sullivan's (1956) concept of dissociation may be illuminating, particularly its most common aspect: selective inattention. A ubiquitous, nonpathological process, selective inattention makes life more manageable, like tuning out the background noise on a busy street. However, through dissociation of anxiety-provoking knowledge about the self, a whole double life can be lived and yet, in some ways, not be known. Clinical presentations of closeted gay people may lie somewhere in severity between selective inattention--most commonly seen in the case of homosexually self-aware patients thinking about "the possibility" that they might be gay--to more severe dissociation-- in which any hint of same-sex feelings resides totally out of conscious awareness. More severe forms of dissociation are commonly observed in married men who are homosexually self-aware but cannot permit the thought of themselves as gay (Roughton, 2002). Read more: http://www.psychiatrictimes.com/articles/closet-psychological-issues-being-and-coming-out

A child’s sexual orientation is not about sexual behavior - it is about LOVE, wanting to feel one with another. Depending on the severity of this rejection of a child’s expression of love - the child wants to desperately please his parents and will learn to hid from his parent such emotions of love that are disturbing to them. He will even hide them from himself and thus begins the mental dissociation of this child - attempting to suppress the never ending - regular functioning of his sexual orientation of the emotional impulses - to be loved and to love and to feel one with another.




However, a person’s sexual orientation like the heart beating, breathing, sexual arousal, etc., are all under the control autonomic nervous system that operates automatically and unconsciously - they cannot be suppressed. 





"Pupil dilation patterns could therefore reflect, with high sensitivity, automatic attention related to sexual attraction and sexual orientation…"

"Clinical presentations of closeted gay people may lie somewhere in severity between selective inattention--most commonly seen in the case of homosexually self-aware patients thinking about "the possibility" that they might be gay--to more severe dissociation--in which any hint of same-sex feelings resides totally out of conscious 
awareness"



“Brokeback Mountain” 2005
AUSCHWITZ - CHRISTMAS 2008 - A flashback far more severe than in
BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN
December 26, 2008 – Fr. Marty Kurylowicz


I have been so saddened by Pope Benedict XVI's cruel words to LGBTQ people around the world, to their parents, families and friends, most ESPECIALLY TO CHILDREN. After reading the accounts of this human travesty, I did not know where to find comfort or hope. And then I thought about your blog. And just like receiving a wonderful Christmas present, sure enough I found the hope and comfort I needed to hear. 

I am a priest and a clinical psychologist (MS). And for one of my research projects I chose to do a qualitative research project of the recorded verbal accounts of survivors of the Holocaust, 50 years after the event. It was a difficult research project, because I could not make sense of one of the accounts of the survivors. 

For example, one survivor was describing what it was like riding the train to AUSCHWITZ, but he was describing how he was trying to make conversation with a girl on the train. I listened and wrote out this one account almost 30 times but I just was not getting it. I could not understand how this man could be talking about wanting to make conversation with this girl on the same train to AUSCHWITZ!?! 

Because I had taught high school religion classes for nearly 20 years, it hit me hard, like a flash of lightning. Instantly, all the pieces came together, so fast. Though this survivor was in his late 60’s when he gave his account of his story on audiotape, he was remembering the events that took place, but naturally they were recounted through the mind of a teenager, the age he was on the train to AUSCHWITZ. That is why the dialogue wasn’t making any sense. I was thinking of him as an old man because the voice on the audiotape was the voice of a 68-year-old. As shocking as a bomb going off, all the different aspects of the psychological developmental stages of a teenager kicked in. I realized only too fully that he was just a young normal teenager on that train!!! And so was the girl he was trying to make conversation, and their moms and dads were there with them!!! There was no way to pretend I did not realize what I discovered. It kept hitting me: this is not some script from a movie or TV miniseries on the Holocaust. No; as much as I wished it were. The reality of this horror hit me all at once, on so many different levels of consciousness: what an unbelievable horror it was!!! How could we treat human beings like this! I remember when the realization of the magnitude of this horror first hit me, like an instant reflex. I threw down the transcript I was holding as if it were a blazing hot poker. It kept hitting me over and over again that this is not a movie script or some kind of play – this really happened! It really happened! Oh, my God, how could this have happened!?!!!

My supervisor told me at the time that I was traumatized by the oral content. Qualitative research is an attempt to understand the complexity of emotions, the kinds of emotions, and the degree of intensity involved. Our emotions are what allow us to connect with other human beings. We identify with the non-verbal quality of emotions more immediately and strongly than with the words used to express them. The non-verbal qualities include tone of voice, eye contact, facial expression, body posture, and gestures, all of which express emotions. Emotions are why we can connect with people through time, across cultures, and individually. It is the expression of human emotions in the arts that makes some works of art timeless, because they continually speak to all people through the ages. 

And when I heard what Pope Benedict XVI said about homosexuals and transgendered human beings at Christmas 2008, I felt that same trauma all over again. Because in some way, somehow, he was conveying in a non-verbal manner the horror of the Holocaust, in what appears to be a traumatized, trance-like, accepted social norm from that period of time dictating that some people just don’t count, aren’t important, and can be easily disposed of. And if you rock the boat, you could be next to be disposed of.

I truly have to believe that a person in his position would not be doing this consciously or intentionally. The horror of the Holocaust is like an atomic bomb with fallout so extensive that it spreads over a radius of more than 150 miles. The horror of the Holocaust began in 1933 and ended in 1945. The psychological fallout would have been far more extensive and more deadly, especially when it is not identified as such.

It hit me the way it did when I realized that the research I was doing about a Holocaust survivor, a man 68 years old telling his story, who was remembering what it was like to be on the train to AUSCHWITZ, from the perspective of a young teenage boy who just wanted to talk to a girl. It seemed like the same kind of horror, a tacit assumption that some people don't count and can be disposed of without remorse. Could it be that Benedict XVI is unconsciously repeating Hitler's crime against humanity by taking on a long-accepted social attitude from that period of time? 

The question I asked myself was: what would it have been like for someone growing up gay during the Nazi Persecution of Homosexuals 1933 -1945? 

What would be the severity of the psychological effects on a boy who grew up to be gay in Germany during the time of Hitler’s NAZI PERSECUTION OF HOMOSEXUALS 1933 -1945? During the Nazi regime, homosexuals were publicly defamed and falsely accused for the major social problems of that time, which was done to incite massive public hatred and hostility directed against homosexuals. Homosexuals were used for medical experiments, physically mutilated, brutally tortured and exterminated.

Would this child, as an adult, in a severe dissociated state of mind from his own homosexual feelings (Harry Stack Sullivan MD, Dissociative Processes, Clinical Studies on Psychiatry (1956)), unconsciously perpetuate the terrifying horror of the insensitivity he had experienced growing up? If he found himself in a position of authority would he recreate the same social and political environment of violence and terror for homosexuals that he experienced, as a child who grew up to be gay, during the NAZI PERSECUTION OF HOMOSEXUALS? 

I think in truth on a much deeper level I was frightened, really frightened, to hear Pope Benedict XVI’s Christmas remarks against homosexuals and transgendered human beings and even more frightened by the silence from the larger global community of human beings. What is so frightening is, even if there is agreement that one person does not matter or is not important, in truth then no one matters. Therefore, when I thought about your blog and what you did on October 5, 2008, I felt more reassured, I felt hope, and I felt comforted. NOW, isn’t that the true meaning of Christmas? 

God Bless you,

Fr. Marty Kurylowicz

. . . .Written by Martin S. Kurylowicz, M.Div., M.S.
Edited by Madeline Wright, Ph.D., M.S. . . .
  
“What you cannot do is accept injustice. From Hitler – or anyone. You must make the injustice visible – be prepared to die like a soldier to do so.”
Mahatma Gandhi

INVISIBLE

INJUSTICE 
THE VIOLENCE OF 
RC HIERARCHY’S 
REJECTION
OF THE 
SCIENCE 
ON HOMOSEXUALITY IS 
STRUCTURAL 
VIOLENCE
IS
CHILD 
ENDANGERMENT
Child Endangerment refers to an act or omission that renders a child to psychological, emotional or physical abuse. Child abuse based on the offense of child endangerment is normally a misdemeanor, but endangerment that results in mental illness or serious physical illness or injury is a felony. Read more:https://definitions.uslegal.com/c/child-endangerment/


REJECTING A CHILD
GAY SEXUAL ORIENTATION 
 THE ADULT VICTIMS

 RC HIERARCHY 
RAISED IN
ANTIGAY SOCIAL ENVIRONMENTS 
(THE BREACH - Vatican’s unsubstantiated teaching on homosexuality - rejecting the science on homosexuality -  NO DIALOGUE is obsessively fiercely enforced)
IS THE ROOT CAUSE OF 
"rigidity"

THEY WERE 
NEVER ALLOWED TO DEVELOP LEARNING TO LOVE -  
TO GROW UP DUE TO…

RC HIERARCHY
ADULT VICTIMS  
A LIFETIME SUFFERING FROM THE  -INABILITY TO LOVE AND TO BE LOVED - 
LIVING A LIFETIME IN ISOLATION
THE CLOSET 
A MOST SUFFOCATING EXISTENCE
RC HIERARCHY'S
RE-ENACTMENTS
RECREATING THEIR LOVELESS CLOSET
GLOBALLY

HAS BECOME
THE RC HIERARCHY'S

RC HIERARCHY
PERPETUATING
SAME LIFETIME VIOLENCE OF THIS
EARLY CHILDHOOD ABUSE 



STRUCTURAL
 VIOLENCE 
by Deborah Du Nann Winter and Dana C. Leighton
“Peace, conflict, and violence: Peace psychology in the 21st century”
…Direct violence is horrific, but its brutality usually gets our attention: we notice it, and often respond to it. Structural violence, however, is almost always invisible, embedded in ubiquitous social structures, normalized by stable institutions and regular experience. Structural violence occurs whenever people are disadvantaged by political, legal, economic, or cultural traditions. Because they are longstanding, structural inequities usually seem ordinary—the way things are and always have been. But structural violence produces suffering and death as often as direct violence does, though the damage is slower, more subtle, more common, and more difficult to repair. The chapters in this section teach us about some important but 
invisible forms of structural violence, and alert us to the powerful cultural
 mechanisms that create and maintain them over generations…
Read more:
SECTION II STRUCTURAL VIOLENCE
Peace, Conflict, and Violence: Peace Psychology for the 21st Century. Englewood Cliffs, New Jersey: Prentice-Hall. http://u.osu.edu/christie/about/peace-conflict-and-violence-peace-psychology-for-the-21st-century/























Fr. MSK



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